welcome you seem young at heart...that's all that matters!

As far as not wanting to disturb your husband, or disrupt your sleep by recording dreams, i have a couple suggestions

1. buy a pen with a small light built in to it. keep it stuck in your dream journal to an open page. this way you can jot down the main elements of the dream quickly, without having to get up, or fully wake up.

2. or, use a small recorder of some sort, and do roughly the same thing. softly speak the main points into it, and your husband shouldn't awaken.

then you can 'flesh in' the dreams come morning if you want, and you should still be able to remember them in detail if you use the rough structure from the night before.

good luck in your journeys