Man of Dreams, I don't know what your game is, but kindly knock it off.

You've only made one other post since you joined here, and that was in response to someone else's thread. If you're not going to ask questions, or at least introduce yourself properly, you can't expect people to just start contacting you.

I'm sure you were sent a welcoming PM by one of the DreamGuides -- possibly even me (sorry, but we welcome so many people my feeble brain cannot remember all the names, and I can't keep all the sent messages to refer to or my mailbox would overflow). If you have questions that you don't want to post publicly, or just need some help with something, please contact one of the DreamGuides -- if not the one who sent you the welcome message, then any other will do.

And by the way, I'm pretty sure that the majority of us failed many more than 3 times when first learning to induce lucid dreams. That certainly does not make you a loser in any way. You just have to keep trying, and have a positive attitude that you are going to succeed -- if not tonight, then tomorrow, or the next night.