Hello DeliStyle, welcome to the forums.

To answer your question. Lucidity takes practice and hard work to get what you want. If you work hard at it and have a positive attitude towards Luciding, then you will start to notice changes in your dreams, small at first but as you progress it will become greater and greater.

Dream control has many techniques you can use to harness your dreams. Have a look through the Tutorials section one more time, it always helps.

Good luck


- Axis