Welcome to the forum, jalla! Glad you found the site. It's really nice being able to talk to people with similar interests and be able to ask questions and get advice.

Glad to hear you're already reading EWOLD - that's a fantastic start. I love to read that book right before falling asleep - helps get me in the dreaming frame-of-mind.

Don't worry about not having full control during LDs. Like Joe said, that takes a lot of practice. Lucidity and control are not necessarily related - you can be lucid with no control, and inversely, you can have control without being lucid. Personally, I find being lucid quite easy, but it's the control that I sometimes struggle with. It's all about trying new things and finding techniques that work for you.

Good luck and have fun!