Hi, there's a lot of people around your age here too. And yes this is the best lucid dreaming site. Your dream recall isn't what? If it isn’t that good you should start a dream journal. Actually if your interested in dreaming you should have one anyway. Controlling lucid dreams is sometimes hard or easy depending on the person. There's a whole guide of techniques to flying in the tutorial page. To stay in a dream a common thing to do is spin in a dream or do more reality checks. Welcome to Dv (Dream Views).