thanks burns, i'll definitely check out the beyond dreams forum, that sounds good..

tornado- thanks for your advice, yes i can see what you mean..
it is hard to remember these things when your experiencing a night terror, i do find, and i know this is terribly lazy of me, but because i get them so often, i suffer from emotional exhaustion due to it and when i get another one i just think no! i will not let this happen again and struggle violently and i completely dispare and i think this is something that only prolongs what is happening..so, i think your right, i need to accept it once again and kind of go back to the drawing board and learn how to be calm about it, and perhaps they'll pass quicker..

hehe! yes, i dont really know how i got to be so lucky with lucid dreaming, its been withme since before i even knew what it was, and generally, you know...people dont really talk about any of his stuff, and if you do they think your into black arts or something so i just thought i was either mad or special..but hey, you dont really complain do you if you go on your own personal flight across the skies every now and then..

its nice to be here though, ye know...i was out the other night with 2 very good friends of mine, now the friends i have are generally intelligent and spiritual otherwise i wouldn't be friends with them but even so.. i said, "so ive been getting asp and night terrors again, theyre really messin up my life at the moment" i then went into explaining what i was talking about..the reaction was something like- ...so that was obviously a big mistake.. "No one has a finer command of language than the person who knows how to keep his mouth shut-Sam Rayburn"

yep, glad to be here... thanks guys