Hi welcome to Dream Views i just joined recently also and to answer your questions.

How can I practice to have lucid dreams if I've only ever had them at random?

Well, firstly you need to develop good dream recall if you haven't already
and secondly you need to start recording all your dreams in a Journal
and start doing reality checks


How can we have a lucid dreams about things we haven't experienced ~ like being killed (the most obvious) etc..??

I don't tech understand how but you'll be amazed at what your subconsciouses mind can create

If I died in a lucid dream is there a chance of me actually dieing in real life?

Nope not at all, your completely safe infact the last lucid dream i had
i got because i died lol

Can anyone here tell me the easiest way for me to get a lucid dream ~ me being a noob and all


Well, it verys from person to person no individual is the same
all the lucid dreams iv had have been DILD's (Dream Induced Lucid Dream)


you should really read the site to these forums. theres alot of information you should know

http://www.dreamviews.com