 Originally Posted by Erig
Hello, I'm new to this forum and lucid dreaming in general. A friend of mine got me interested in it recently. The reason I want to try is, well, I'm limited physically. I have Muscular Dystrophy, and have little/no arm and leg control. This has made life rather limited and confining for me. It seems the only times I feel the slightest bit free is during dreams. I'm hoping lucid dreaming would be therapeutic for me.
Hi! It's nice to have you here. Boy, you're in for some freedom, my friend. People in your position can potentially benefit from lucid dreaming more than the rest of us. You can do anything you've always/ever wanted to do. You can do things that none of us can do in real life.
I've always felt that LDing can be very power mental therapy for those in physically handicapped states. Stand up and fly!
But this brings up several problems. I can't physically do certain reality checks (obstructing nose, jumping, looking at my hand), or certain techniques (can't get out of bed, change my sleeps cycle, get more/less comfortable).
Ah, but that's where you're wrong! You have the very same powers of reality testing as the rest of us. You see, RCing is a purely mental activity. Many people do things such as the hand or nose RCs but, that's only because it's a convenient task. However, it takes no physical abilities whatsoever to RC.
Most of my RCs are purely mental in nature. Take a moment to study the world around you. Look for anomalies in the environment. Look for consistencies in things from one look 'til the next. Remember, RCs can be ANY type of observation. Where are you right now? How did you get there? Is that clock consistent? Since when do trees talk? Try floating out of your seat. Be creative.
Learn to recognise the types of things that occur in many of your dreams. Tell yourself that the next time you experience any of those things (MILD, DILD) you HAVE to be dreaming.
Plus I'm afraid of sleep paralysis, so WILD is out of the question, and it seems that if I know I'm falling asleep, I wake myself up out of habit.
Simply put: don't be afraid. Besides, you don't have to experience SP to WILD so please don't let that fear limit your options here. You want every known tool at your disposal.
Now, I'm a complete noob, so I'm not sure if this will cause me difficulty or not. Is this something to be concerned about? Or are there enough different working methods that I'll be able to find one I can use?
Thanks!
Your most powerful dreaming tool from the beginning will be reading about, thinking about and occupying your mind with dreaming and its possibilities.
Let me tell you, my friend, there is nothing holding you back right now. Your physical limitations are only in the physical realm. Now is your time to shine! Becoming aware of lucid dreaming is the first step. Taking interest is the second step. You have a unique form of motivation. You are primed and ready. All you must do now is let go and put forth the mental effort and you're there.
You probably have more reason to want to dream lucidly than any other member here at DV. Don't ever let anything hold you back from this most liberating and freedom-granting opportunity. We are all behind you. Don't be afraid to ask for help as we are all willing to offer advice and give you the kick in the butt you need. And I offer you my personal services and attention any time you want.
Good luck and welcome to Dreamviews. You are amongst friends here. Ready, set, go!
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