Hello all, I'm 18 and im new to the site and ive been having occasional lucid dreams all my life but recently started being able to have them every night. I never knew what i was doing and I never knew the term "Lucid dreaming", or that it was possible, it all just happened and i taught myself. during my lucid dreams I can control myself in anyway that i want but i cannot control my surroundings or things that occur. Usually when i realize i am dreaming I have fun for a little bit but then weird events occur. for example last night i started off eating at hooters, partying, and having a good time, then an indian guy took me and friends clam hunting on a raft. then i ended up in the woods where i faught a farmer who had a purple stick, then aliens came and i fought them with mind powers... just really weird things. the thing is this was all actually scary and hard to keep in mind its a dream. what i want to know is ways to control what happens in the dreams. any suggestions?