Hi! I just decided to join your interesting forums spontaneously. I have read a bit about lucid dreaming around the forums and tried it for the first time last night. Now by what I have been reading here, it seems that you guys can take control of your dreams or at least influence them slightly during certain stages of sleep, but you also stress dream recall so you can actually remember it. I have always thought of myself as a sparse dreamer, only having dreams one time a week or so, but now I have been reading that I dream all the time, I just don't remember it. So I tried to force myself to remember it this mourning and I did remember a few details about it, which was interesting. I plan to keep this up until I can remember most of my dreams. I kinda know what a lucid dream feels like because I have had a limited ability to manipulate a dream, but often its only to change it a little bit, I still feel like I am not necessarily in charge.

The most common dream I can remember having is were I get into a fight with a kid at school or with some random person, but as soon as I hit him, my hands and arms are very week and I cant inflict any damage or even make the person wince. I wouldn't say its a nightmare, because I am not afriad and I can tell it is a dream, but it would be cool to be able to smash said person through a wall or something lol. I think it reflects my real life fighting prowess, which is non-existent seeing as I have never truly fought a person due to my peaceful nature.

Hopefully I can get a little better and start having fun dreams, like picturing architecture and beautiful landscapes. I also like rain and blue/dark storm clouds. I think I like storms because I live in and was born in a desert, so I associate it with the green forests of Europe, which I have visited a few times.

One question I have though is what the mods policy on discussing wet dreams is. Do you guys have a "no tolerance" rule or a "just don't get into detail" rule? Just wondering lol.