Quote Originally Posted by gm23 View Post
is this a lucid dream?
Gidday gm23 and a big Welcome to Dreamviews.

Does not sound like a LD but you have to judge. To be lucid you have to be fully conscious of the fact that you are dreaming like switching channels on the TV, one moment you are dreaming, next, your mind is fully conscious and you realise you are having a dream. Click, back to the dream.

Dont know your age but it sounds like the hormones are working hard during your sleep when your fiancee is with you and is probably dream induced. It should not get violent but you should talk to her about it and get her to wake you up when it starts. (maybe that will induce her to indulge in some hanky panky to subdue the hormones )

If you want to LD, you will need to start a dream journal to improve your dream recall AND do regular, frequent reality checks, at least every half hour, to make it a habit so that you will eventually start doing them during a dream and this will make you lucid.
Dont "try" to LD yet. Get stuck into the RCs and journal for a couple of weeks and a LD should come to you.
We can guarantee that the experience of having a LD is well worth any effort you make so get determined and committed.

Best wishes and again, Welcome.