Haha sorry if I came off sounding a little unfriendly there. I should have explained better so here we go:

Generally, conversations between two people done through pm/email/or instant messaging. It’s easier that way. This is also to keep the idea of a forum community intact. It’s no fun when everyone at Dreamviews are just talking to their buddies.

Regular conversations that are off-topic take place in the middle section of the forums. For example, this thread would probably be in senseless banter or the lounge. (Most likely the former.)

Hope that was somewhat enlightening.

Oh, and deleting your post can be done by clicking that little ‘x’ next to edit at the top right of your message.