There are many tutorials out there, but remember the people who made the tutorials usually do so because they can use that technique. Some techniques just arent for you and you have to search through them to find the best one.

Silo had a good idea about getting into an adoption program. But the best thing is to keep trying different techniques, and dont give up on them so fast. Work with one technique for about 2 weeks and if after that it still doesnt work, then move on to the next. Lucid Dreaming is a hard feat, and it doesnt come really easy.