Try casually focusing more on your breathing and the darkness behind your eyelids. Don't let your mind wander too much or you'll fall asleep completely, and don't focus too hard or you'll just stay awake like you did. Your body wasn't yet asleep. You'll know when it is when you experience sleep paralysis (trust me, you'll know). Even if you're one of those people who doesn't experience sleep paralysis, you will definitely be able to tell when your body is asleep completely. It's a very noticeable feeling.
It's hard to explain, but the type of focus that goes into WILDing is pretty laid-back. Like you are sort of sneaking up on the process - you lay around and pretend you're just falling asleep, and then BAM! when your body falls asleep, you're there and ready.
Also, don't worry if you move a bit. Some people change position multiple times and can WILD in 20 minutes. It helps if you're comfortable as your body will fall asleep faster if there is less tension and pressure. Personally I can go either way. I've stayed still and had a WILD and I've moved around as well. WBTB also helps because if you wake up after a few hours of sleep, you're already far into your sleep cycle (closer to REM, the stage where we dream the most vividly), and falling back asleep will be easier.
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