I have been practicing my dream recall and it is fine now but the thing is i can not control myself in my dreams. I would say it is like a first person view of a movie. If any of you could, please post some alarm times you recommend and some other ways to obtain lucidity in my dreams. The only source of stress in my life is my brother. We fight a lot. I have recently seen the movie Avatar and how Jake goes into the avatar's body through a dream, I found extremely interesting and made me want to control my dreams. A way to find if you are in a dream Dream Views said is to pinch yourself. Thing is, I cant. So, please help me!!!!!!