I am Red Sash, as you can see. I have known about lucid dreaming for a few months but have been met with limited success. While looking up information on sleep I stumbled across this site and it looks like exactly what I need at the moment. *enter crisis*

It is very difficult for me to discuss this, as I am a very conservative and reserved person, but I need some advice. Lately I have been having some less-than-desirable dreams where my dream is in direct conflict with the values of my waking life. I will tell you of my most recent:

After several events had taken place, I found myself (as a man) in a room with a lady who wished to make love to me. Such being the manifestation of my subconscious I grew to share the desire; however, we were interrupted before anything happened. So, we traveled to another room and, to ensure privacy, I (still as a man) said things in the manner of, "I wish there were a door here!" and a door appeared, though in the wrong location. Then I wished for another door just next to it but one did not appear. So I wished for a wall and as I swept my hand across the open air one appeared, effectively shutting out my two pursuers. Inside the room, the lady was laying on a couch, both of us ready to satisfy our desires. I was just about to turn the light off, but I woke up.

In each of those types of dreams where I wish to pursue my desires but they never truly come to fruition, thankfully. I set myself to fairly rigid moral standards, especially when it pertains to the subject mentioned. They are annoying to me, especially when I wake up and the desire is still set-in. Would anyone have any advice? I'm sure that lucid dreaming would help, but it doesn't aid me when I can't achieve lucidity.

Thank you.

Sash~