Originally Posted by
DeeryTheDeer
I don't have a guy anymore. I did have one a few months ago... we got along pretty well and had a lot in common, and he was fairly attractive. He warned me that he wasn't exclusive, and I said sure, whatever. I one day just texted him that I wanted to hook up, and he kept being hesitant about it, said he wanted to be "ethical" about it. I told him if he didn't want to I'd back off, but he insisted it wasn't that. Well, suddenly I got strangely depressed and lonely, feeling like no one loved me, so I told him nevermind, because I didn't want just sex. He said he understood. I stopped texting him after that for a whole month, mainly because I feared it would just be awkward if we met up again from then on. When I finally texted back, we agreed to meet up again, but I slept through it because I napped too long. I told him I was so, so sorry for missing it, but he was understanding and cool about it. I told him the next date I'd pay, but he said he didn't think of it as a "date" at all. He admitted he was already in a relationship that was "getting pretty serious", but he still really wanted to be friends if I was okay with it. That's when I stopped texting him for good, and deleted his contact number from my phone.