Thread: Personal Problems.

a girl problem ehh? those are the worst. -- i don't pray but i'll wish you luck. so good luck.

i swear girls are here just to make life confusing for us hard working guys who just want simplicity out of life.

again, good luck.

I also wish you the best LC, and if there is anything I can do to help, whether its just by supporting you, or if I can counsel you in some way or lend you an ear(after all I am a psych major) I would be more than glad to help. I know we have had our run ins in the past, but please PM if there is anything I can do to help you and I will gladly do it. I really mean it, you can count on me...

It's nice and helpful to have many people there for you for support and help, but the most important thing is to be able to stand on your own first. Don't be solely dependant on others for help and support, and especially don't lay all relationship problems and issues on your partner. Remember that there are two people to each relationship, and two people have to take part and have equal respect for one another. This also means you have to respect yourself, don't leave that part out..

Maybe I'm ranting and ramlbing.. so I'll stop myself before I post a million word essay here on self-respect and how important it is to a relationship, but just remember that if you "live for her" then you demeen yourself, and a loving partner doesn't want you to do that to yourself. I know that your "diamond" doesn't want you to live for her, but to live with her. Say you love her and you'd do anything for her, that you live for her, but don't let that consume your life and yourself.

I don't know if I'm making any sense.

Ah well, hope I've been enlightening.. somehow

haha o'nus, that even helped me out with my current situation. thanks.

It's not like i have done something 'wrong' of sorts, or she has, its just that the external environment is...not really amazing.
It's all going to be fine with a little time.
Thank you so much.

Hey man, I am here for you. Call, YIM, PM, whatever you need.

Thanks Seeker, that means alot to me...

Michael, you have helped me put together my rambled thought, and knock some sense into me on and off Dream Views, you don't know how grateful i am to all of you.

Everything is going to be fine, but a little more time is needed...i am not alright, but im doing ok.

I hope everything will turn better for you...

You most certainly have my blessings, and you are in my prayers. I hope things go smoothly for you and that everything works out for the best.

My grammy used to say "Everything happens for a reason." I think that, most of the time, she was right. Just stay strong and lean on us if you need to. That's what friends are for. You can stand on your own, but everyone needs a little help now and then.

Chin up, cutie! It may not seem so now, but everything will be ok. *hugs*

Good luck with that man. But like LS said everything happens for a reason. In case things don't work out (I'm really hoping they will, your a cool kid) remember that the world is huge, there are a lot of things to see... and many more women.

Originally posted by A Lost Soul
You most certainly have my blessings, and you are in my prayers. I hope things go smoothly for you and that everything works out for the best. *

My grammy used to say \"Everything happens for a reason.\" I think that, most of the time, she was right. Just stay strong and lean on us if you need to. That's what friends are for. You can stand on your own, but everyone needs a little help now and then. *

Chin up, cutie! It may not seem so now, but everything will be ok. *hugs*

This definately opened my eyes...everything is getting better, and i understand now...i am transparent.

KalmaH...were not broken up! HELLLLLLL NO!...just external crap influencing, ontop of me being over sensitive to certain things, but i am all clear now, not changed completely, but i know now...

Well, you already got my prayer but you know that..remember what I(we) said..although the concept(you know what Im talking about) generally brings a curse..with the blessing, there is a big chance thats not the case persay, keep up the hope, situations differ (like yours from me) some people are in a situation that cannot be solved/saved(yet) but this is most defenitly not the case with you and your girl, may the spirits of love and goodness be with the both of you there is nothing you cant beat, and remember as long as you love eachother you are always with oneanother in spirit and in heart wherever you are, whatever other people say, whatever happens..however how messed up it gets, love and your bond will keep you together,forever.

I know you dont believe things I believe...but you are one. Especially you, are one. Energy connected even closer then normally..you can feel her, even when she is not there. Give her the most passionate kiss, with all your love..with everything you have for me(not that I want to kiss her lol, but you know what I mean) and feel her..not just her lips..her body..taste her soul, and then think back to that to that later when you are not with her..feel her, she is there. And just that, is enough to keep you going always, fill yourself with willpower, stand up, you know it is right, whatever the situation whatever people say,whatever fucked up happens, whatever will happen, cry, laugh..know you and her will be together and love her, nothing can stop you, not a thing in the cosmos.. For some reason I cry myself abit saying that..as it aplies to me personally, but thats diffirent and besides the point.
I would hate to see you and her in a fucked up situation, but whatever happens, you know what to do. Its right there, in your heart. I locked my heart and gave away the key, and the keyholder is still within my heart. I know you are doing the same, loving eachother forever and no force in the seven planes of the cosmos can stop you. There is still so much hope for you, and you know that, when two people love eachother like that, there always is.

Aye,good luck my friend, may venus smile apon you. ^_^

Thanks Lucius.

You guys have helped me so much. Thank you, friends.
Words have betrayed me.

hey man, i know many others have said they would help you along the way, but i just want to be another. i have had some problems in the past with two girls that i really loved (and to a point still do), so maybe we would have something in common that you could relate to, or maybe even take some advise. i know that when i had those problems that i said everything was fine , but i just didn't want others to know , so if you're feeling this way too, i would be glad to help. but i hope you really are fine.

I wish you strength, and i hope you will overcome anything that troubles you. I am not good in advices and i dont know the nature of your problem but my thoughts are with you...