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      So Anyone Miss Me?

      Hey all, Sorry I have not been around lately! I have been in a major funk lately, Dealing with a lot of anger about life. Normally I am not an angry person and I get over things quickly. Maybe that is my problem, I'm not really over them.

      Anyway... since the forum is mostly guys I won't get into my guy bashing mode. Nah, I would never do that... it's just a few guys I am angry with not all of them. But really I don't know how to get over it! I find myself just wanting to say "Fuck EVERYONE!!!" I've been screwed over one to many times and I'm sick of it. Tell me... WHAT IS THE POINT???

      I was encouraged by Truthbearer to post about all the stuff that has been going on in my life... well the stuff that has been keeping me away from DV. He reminded me that there is a great support system here and that my DV family is here for me! So anyway... I forgot, Thanks for reminding me, and thanks in advance for being here for me!

      Anyway... I won't go into the whole saga of what is pissing me off, no one wants my sob story. I've just been in a dark place and that is why I have not been around.... but I do have a question for you all, How do i freakin deal with this anger? I can't get it to go away unless I am sleeping, smoking or drinking. Of course that is a temporary fix. Oh well... maybe time will heal? screw that!!!! LOL!!!!

      p.s. I still believe in love... but I don't think it believes in me!
      Raised By Seeker!!!

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      Welcome back sexay lady!

      Don\'t hurt me...
      You guys suck.

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      Your presence was missed.
      And we can take it. If it helps you to vent and bash some guys I think it would be a worthwhile trade of to keep you around.
      Soooo let us have it! Cheating bastard, lieing son of a bitches, back stabbing etc, etc. We think the same way about women from time to time.

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      How to do deal with anger about love frustration.. well.. that's a real toughie.. if not impossible to answer.. I am more inclinced to the latter.

      First of all, don't rely on anything to help you deal with any pain or anger; it leads to obsessions, and delusions of happiness.. I'm sure you've heard enough lectures on those.

      What I want to tell you though is that love is hard.. but nothing in life comes with just a wish or is easily smoothed over. You have to sweat in order to get through life, you have to bleed, because it means you are alive..

      I too have thought that love was hopeless.. that it is all just lies.. But if you have the strength, perserverance, and hope, you will see that it is not all lies, that whatever happens, happens. I don't believe in fate, but I do believe that nothing comes easy, and even when you reach that crescendo that you have been trying to achieve for so many years; you have to fight to keep it.

      As a good quote, I will quote a movie which people have typically ridiculed me for doing so; Just Married. Yes, Ashton Kutcher's father had a decent line in the movie.. the only decent line. They were looking through a photo album and he said, "You never see the hard days in a photo album... but those are the ones that get you from one happy snapshot to the next."

      Some of my personal favorite quotes (which I believe I have said on the board before) are:

      "For every beautiful rose you pluck, dirt must come with it."
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      "Even though a picture falls off the wall, it does not mean the nail is broken."

      I hope they help and are not just completely vague..

      I hope I have brought a smile to your face..

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      Pfft. Men.



      We can indeed take a hiding in regards to our male love issues, as it is in the spirit of a man to laugh at other men getting yelled at.

      Oh, and welcome back. It's good to have another girl around here to counteract the effects of us men. Sometimes it feels a bit like a sausage fest in here.

      Sorry you feel bad about the whole "Life and love" thing. If I lived where you lived i'd take you out for some lunch and a movie to help you get your mind off of it, but I guess we'll just have to settle for an "e-pat on the back".

      Great to have you back.

      Originally posted by Daniel S. Greenberg
      Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.
      The best times of your life should not be when you're still so young, or else you'll live a life always dreaming of the past.


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      Thanks everyone!!!!

      O'nus, I love the quotes and it made me smile!!!!

      ffx, I wont hurt you!!!

      Lomebririon, thanks for the e-pat on the back... just what i needed!!

      Howetzer, You guys are awesome and don't deserve to hear me bitch about other guys... sometimes I just want to scream.... so I'll do that!!!

      AAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH !!!!


      I feel better.... i wanted to chear up from this tread and it is already working! Thanks guys!!!!!
      Raised By Seeker!!!

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      He will have his revenge Aphius's Avatar
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      Ahh. I was thinking quite recently that it has been a long time since I had read anything of yours.

      I must apologise though, I haven't started on your picture yet...
      I promise I will now though!



      Good to have you back.
      These are the tears that I dream about...

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      I know we've been talking offline about this, but here is a public *HUG* for you!

      You'll be fine. You are strong! Keep eating those seeds!
      you must be the change you wish to see in the world...
      -gandhi

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      I don't really know you that much, but welcome back none the less!

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      Hehe I was wondering where my picture was... hehe no worries.

      [size=24]I'ts great to be back!!!
      Raised By Seeker!!!

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      He will have his revenge Aphius's Avatar
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      I'll try and make it extra good for being slack on it!

      These are the tears that I dream about...

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      Oh, I can't wait to see it! Me next?
      you must be the change you wish to see in the world...
      -gandhi

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      Welcome back. (longest post ever!)

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      He will have his revenge Aphius's Avatar
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      Originally posted by seeker
      Oh, I can't wait to see it! Me next?
      Maaaaybe.
      These are the tears that I dream about...

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      Great to have you back, alurast!

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      Well thanks CT and well everyone, I really must say I don't see how I stayed away for as long as i did. You all are such a great group of people.... awww no i am gunna get all sappy again... thanks for being here!!!! Crap I have to remember I'm pissed off!!! Oh well hehe... we'll just see!

      Raised By Seeker!!!

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      Originally posted by Alaurast78
      Well thanks CT and well everyone, *I really must say I don't see how I stayed away for as long as i did. *You all are such a great group of people.... *awww no i am gunna get all sappy again... thanks for being here!!!! *Crap I have to remember I'm pissed off!!! *Oh well hehe... we'll just see!

      8) We're all glad you're back... but dont you ever go again!!

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      Hey!!!! Sorry I hadn't posted here yet, even if I was who encouraged you to post here!!! I have been off for 4 days so haven't really entered DV. I feel bad because of that, so sorry...

      Anyway, I am glad to see you back and I am glad you got the help you needed from our great community. Hang in there...I am sure you things will advance and you will meet new great people. Hate is generally not forever, or at least it shouldn't be. There is no purpose on holding on to it and this will just make your life miserable. I also suggest you don't try to change people. I say accept things for what they are and learn to deal with them.

      I know I am just rambling like a madman, but it sounds like good advice inside of here, I guess. Perhaps I am just giving advice to myself vicariously through you...not sure. Anyway, I am glad you are back
      If I hadn't made me
      I'd be more inclined to bow
      Powers that be would have swallowed me up
      But that's more than I can allow...

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