Ah, older women.

[b12]

Went to a party at my friend's frat tonight. Danced and hung out with this girl, my friend's friend, i've met her before. She's three years older than me. I'm definately into her. What is it with me and older women? When i was 16, i almost dated a 21 year old (doesn't that sound pathetic?!). Every other girl i'm into is around a year to three years older than me. I've dated one girl younger than me, been interested in one other girl younger than me. And then, um...made a mistake with a girl a few years younger than me (I SWEAR SHE LOOKED 18) Now i'm not talking about women 30+ or anything, just like...around 22-ish always seems to be my perfect age range! In fact, this 22 year old girl has TOLD MY MOM she's interested in me. Now that's a way to get a man's attention. Does anyone else find older women to be so much sexier? It's the maturity, definately!

[Mes Tarrant]

Hehehehe I thought people stopped caring about one or two year differences after high school? The only way I notice age difference these days (I'm 21) is if it's at least 6 or 7 years. At least. (I'm talking about older guys. Doesn't work quite the same with younger guys at this point.)

[CrimsonWolf]

Well, I generally like girls around my own age (give or take a year). My firstgirl friend was almost 2 years younger than me and after a while it really began to show the difference it age; to put it blunty, I knew a lot more than she did.

[b12]

Well yeah, one or two years difference isn't a big deal, but with me, it's always the older ones that get me. I don't know why, but most girls i meet younger than me, even by only a year, are so...immature and inexperienced. So into drama. It's like at my age, just a few years older and you're done with all the shit

[Xox]

Ahh, I hate how they make a big deal out of the age thing. If you want to date someone 10 yrs. older than you, go right ahead and have fun.

[Mes Tarrant]

^^ Yeah definitely (to b12)! Well of course there are some who never grow out of it.. .. but we must not speak of them. After a certain age, people just... stop maturing. I find that I'm at the same maturity level as my 30+ year old coworkers. It's sort of weird. Took me a while to get used to the idea. Omg Xox, where were you when I needed some uh... .... *giggles* Hehehehehe

[b12]

Ahh, I hate how they make a big deal out of the age thing. If you want to date someone 10 yrs. older tan you, go right ahead and have fun. At 18, a friend of mine dated a married 40 year old. He had fun. I know it's wrong! But eh, his life.

[Xox]

Omg Xox, where were you when I needed some uh... .... *giggles* Hehehehehe Uhm I was..right here Mes. *Ahem* At 18, a friend of mine dated a married 40 year old. He had fun. I know it's wrong! But eh, his life. Now if that was a 40 yr. old man with an 18 yr. old. girl Funny how these things work out.

[Spartiate]

I've never really been attracted to girls my age, which is understandable since they are mostly socially retarded. I've had only one girlfriend that was younger than me, and she was quite mature for her age.

[Serkat]

I feel you on that. Anything 20-35 is really superior to 16-19 95% of the time. Whenever I see a hot 30-year old I just go "Shit, I want to be 10 years older" I'm 20, but really 20-25 seems to work just as good. When i was 16, i almost dated a 21 year old (doesn't that sound pathetic?!) What? Why?

[Moonbeam]

b12, you're so lucky I can't reach you right now. 22 is an "older woman"! That's pretty cruel (to real older women, I mean.) When I was young, I had a long-time BF who was 9 years older than me. When I was 30, I was going out with someone who was 12 years older than me. Then I met my current BF, who was 24 at the time. That was 13 years ago. Age doesn't matter that much, especially as you get older.

[pj]

You are a blessed man, B12. Enjoy... at least until Moonbeam gets her hands around your throat. Seriously - people basically stop changing dramatically at what... 16 or 17? By the time you're in your 20's, those few years of age difference either way become pretty meaningless.

[Sornaensis]

Does anyone else find older women to be so much sexier? It's the maturity, definately! Yes.

[Daeva]

b12, you're so lucky I can't reach you right now. 22 is an "older woman"! That's pretty cruel (to real older women, I mean.) When I was young, I had a long-time BF who was 9 years older than me. When I was 30, I was going out with someone who was 12 years older than me. Then I met my current BF, who was 24 at the time. That was 13 years ago. Age doesn't matter that much, especially as you get older. I seriously have been thinking you were around 20-ish...and I'm not sure why. An older Lady is a lot better then the mentally immature, socially inept females around my age. A lot better all around.

[b12]

b12, you're so lucky I can't reach you right now. 22 is an "older woman"! That's pretty cruel (to real older women, I mean.) Honestly, i think this is the first post that's ever scared me. lol. Now, when i say "older woman" i don't mean OLD woman, i mean older than me! Even if you're a year older than me, you're still older than me, but not old! No, age doesn't matter much, especially when you get older (and by older i don't mean old!), i just find that older women are fantastic. My mom is 10 years younger than my dad. No biggie to me.

[yay]

My mom is 10 years younger than my dad. No biggie to me. I have a friend whos step-dad is like 30 years older than his mom. hes like 70 or so now and shes 40 or so. It doesn't seem too weird now, and he doesn't look that old. But just thinking how he was about 30 when she was born is kind of weird. or how he was 40 when she was 10 etc. I know it's nothing like the young women who marry real old guys, but actually knowing the people is different

[M-Cat]

I've always found women my age shrimpy and dull just because I'm many years ahead of my peers. mentally immature cough

[Daeva]

cough You fail.

[M-Cat]

At what?

[Daeva]

At what? Well, obviously not at trolling. I'll go more so with the 'You fail at being a useful member of the community.'

[M-Cat]

Fair enough.

[Moonbeam]

I seriously have been thinking you were around 20-ish...and I'm not sure why. If you were looking at me and saying that, I'd take it as a complement. Since you are basing it on things I've said... That's OK, I'll still take it as one. I guess. Honestly, i think this is the first post that's ever scared me. lol.

[Mes Tarrant]

Reading these posts, I find it really awesome that you guys are able to notice the immaturity of some of these age groups and try to steer away from them. Says a lot about you! But anyway, as I've said, once you're in your early 20s or something, you honestly won't give a damn about age difference. Unless it's really really significant. I've been trying to figure out at what point this happens... I think my current conclusion is it happens once people get a full time job. pj, I'd say that people continue to change dramatically until something like 18. Well girls do, anyway!

[Daeva]

pj, I'd say that people continue to change dramatically until something like 18. Well girls do, anyway! Psh, girls are psycho...They are always changing, whether it be their mind or their looks.

[Taosaur]

Reading these posts, I find it really awesome that you guys are able to notice the immaturity of some of these age groups and try to steer away from them. Says a lot about you! What if they continue liking 22 year olds for the next two or three decades? I think we need more data.