Thread: Transexual/Transvestite/Transgender...etc

i think you have to youtube the music of "CocoRosie" . for reel.

maybe after work, no speakers here, whats it about?

I'm like obsessed with this topic...who knows maybe deep down i wanna be a girl sometimes lol

I could talk about this for a while, but I can't be bothered right now. But here's a good site about it which discusses a lot of aspects of transsexualism:

http://www.tsroadmap.com/

Originally Posted by •Neko•

I could talk about this for a while, but I can't be bothered right now. But here's a good site about it which discusses a lot of aspects of transsexualism:

http://www.tsroadmap.com/

Thanks!

Im sort of confused lately, ever since ive accepted that im bi, ive just been feeling more and more like im androgynous then male, im not entirely female either...i really don't know what to think sometimes.

I will however say that im more feminine then masculine any day, I feel sometimes like I should be a woman, I feel as if I would be more comfortable with myself if I was a girl.

but at the same time, I don't feel like my male body is wrong or anything, hell I even catch myself looking at my own body going wow that's a nice mid section right there, as if im checking out another guy or something...its odd

I sorta sway back and forth, more towards the woman side, which i would prefer to be...but I was born in this body and thats the way it is.

But in all honesty, look at my pictures or my ava picture, and tell me flat out honestly

would looking like a woman be compatible to my own facial features?

aka, would i make a hot ts?

I wouldn't want to have sex with one...beyond that I don't care. I hope they are happy with their surgery, and they get what they want from it.

Originally Posted by Sandform

I wouldn't want to have sex with one...beyond that I don't care. I hope they are happy with their surgery, and they get what they want from it.

Well im glad to see people accepting of this kind of thing, of course there is always going to be the homo/bi/trans phobes but, their immature little brats so it doesn't matter.

I have read lots of surgery stories and the poor girls go through so much pain to become a real woman, I'm proud of their courage determination and strength. I personally am so freightened to act feminine in public or around family due to fear of ridicule, I don't think I would ever be strong enough to become a full blown woman like some do, they are strong people.

Maybe one day I will become strong enough to act like myself in public, around family...anywhere...

but surgery is kinda out there for me, maybe putting makeup and tight clothes on is enough for me

Time will tell, I assume, as I discover more about myself maybe I will realise that im just a confused androgyn

So you want to be a woman?

Hmm. What is it about being a woman that is an attractive concept?

Originally Posted by Sandform

So you want to be a woman?

Hmm. What is it about being a woman that is an attractive concept?

Well, quite a few times ive put on womens clothes and makeup, and I just felt....right

But when I dress as a guy I feel okay, not uncomfortable, just okay I guess


Alot of times I just wish i was a full fledged woman, I would feel so much more like myself in a womans body because it matches my personality more closely...I mean I can live with being a guy.

I love having my male parts and stuff but, I just get so put off when everyone has this expectation of me to be all macho and tough and sports loving...

I really never play any sports and im HORRIBLE at them, I hate switching on tv shows that have cars with women in bikini next to them, to me its just so degrading that they have to use women to attract men to cars...it just seems so stupid and macho to me..



But what about being a woman is attractive, I will tell you, well for myself that is..

It's easier to attract men.
No facial or body hair..for the most part (some women are hairy..ew)

I can act like myself as a woman, I can finally not hide my true thoughts all the time to mask my femininity due to being a guy, if I was a woman...

I could put makeup on, without being made fun of

Wearing womens clothes as a woman, without being laughed at or called a 'fag'

there's so much I could write but I can't think of all my reasons but, I would honestly prefer to be a female...but I can manage being a guy for the time being..I mean its not TERRIBLE....it just doesn't exactly suit me 100%

Originally Posted by guerilla

It's easier to attract men.

=( maybe that is true, but it would be hard to be honest and "keep" men.

Other than that your reasons seem pretty solid. Still though...being male is pretty cool!

Also your orgasm wont be as good if you become a women =P.

And you'll lose the ability to pee standing up.

There is a movie...erm, I forget the name of it but it is pretty good...ok so I went and looked it up...Transamerica...

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0407265/

Originally Posted by Sandform

=( maybe that is true, but it would be hard to be honest and "keep" men.

Other than that your reasons seem pretty solid. Still though...being male is pretty cool!

Also your orgasm wont be as good if you become a women =P.

And you'll lose the ability to pee standing up.

There is a movie...erm, I forget the name of it but it is pretty good...ok so I went and looked it up...Transamerica...

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0407265/

You have good points, keeping the guys would be hard, better off finding a gay guy haha....true about the orgasms being less intense, i guess?

peeing while standing up? lol I never do that anyways, strange huh? I always sit down to do that pretty much just like a girl...I even get mad when the freakin seat is up!...damn guys why can't you lower it!

I think I saw some of that movie also, its interesting...

But yea im not really complaining about being a guy, I like it...I guess?

If only I could be a girl for a month to try it out and see how it is to really see if thats what I want to be...hmm one day I'll figure it out

Originally Posted by guerilla

You have good points, keeping the guys would be hard, better off finding a gay guy haha....true about the orgasm

I think you shouldn't be afraid to be male, and still act the way you feel.

There are many gay men who are attracted to feminine men, and cross dressers. Personally, I don't like crossdressers, but you know...people with a little swish in their step isn't bad =D.

Society sucks when you can't be who you are.

Originally Posted by Sandform

I think you shouldn't be afraid to be male, and still act the way you feel.

There are many gay men who are attracted to feminine men, and cross dressers. Personally, I don't like crossdressers, but you know...people with a little swish in their step isn't bad =D.

Yea, im just kind of afraid to act feminine as a male, I would feel more comfortable walking like a woman, If I actually looked like one.

I'm just afraid of getting yelled at or getting beat up...I can't defend myself very well, and I get emotional very quickly...someone could bring me to tears by calling me those names..

But I want to ask you flat out, do I look feminine?

That is not a good question to ask me lol. I happen to think most women look like men, and most men look more feminine.

But if I had to say do you look feminine or masculine...I would say you look kinda drunk in your picture so it is hard to tell =P. I would say yes though, you look a bit girl like.

Originally Posted by Sandform

That is not a good question to ask me lol. I happen to think most women look like men, and most men look more feminine.

But if I had to say do you look feminine or masculine...I would say you look kinda drunk in your picture so it is hard to tell =P. I would say yes though, you look a bit girl like.

Really? cool thanks!..well I was stoned in the picture...hehe

I'm actually glad I look 'a bit girl like' thanks for telling me, you just made my day

(well work is over also, time to go home..thats making me happy too)

Lol I even went back and edited it a little cause I thought you would think a bit girl like sounded bad. Hehe. Now I went back and put it back to the way it was.

Originally Posted by Sandform

Lol I even went back and edited it a little cause I thought you would think a bit girl like sounded bad. Hehe. Now I went back and put it back to the way it was.

lol what was it changed to? Idc what it says as long as it calls me girly

anyway, im outta here...time to drive through 1 hour of traffic and play gta4 when I get home woohoo!

<3

I said limp wristy.

Originally Posted by Sandform

So you want to be a woman?

Hmm. What is it about being a woman that is an attractive concept?

It's not so much an attractive concept as it is 'Setting the goal of being able to feel comfortable in your own body'

Originally Posted by Sandform

Also your orgasm wont be as good if you become a women =P.

Uhm, why's that?

Originally Posted by Daeva

Uhm, why's that?

Because they rip up your dick...and it isn' like a womans.

Originally Posted by Sandform

Because they rip up your dick...and it isn' like a womans.

I'm pretty sure they don't just ruin all of the nerves centered around that area. It's a given that a person that gets a sex change still won't have as many nerves as a natural female, but that doesn't mean all of their nerves are just...ruined.

Originally Posted by Daeva

I'm pretty sure they don't just ruin all of the nerves centered around that area. It's a given that a person that gets a sex change still won't have as many nerves as a natural female, but that doesn't mean all of their nerves are just...ruined.

I'm sorry but I'm fairly sure that if your initial arousal comes from something going AROUND your penis to going inside it, it wont be as pleasurable.

At the same time I'm not a sex change doctor so I can't say anything more than that as my hypothesis. If you have something that shows I'm wrong that's fine, I don't even say that I'm definitely right, but I think it is pretty logical to think.

its whats on the inside that counts, you have just as much right to walk feminine as a girl.

Fairytale complex is right, and sandform, I duno if I would go as far as removing that guy downstairs...he's kinda useful

Yeah I was just gonna ask would you want to keep your little guerilla.

I understand your attraction to TS/TG... they've got the best of both worlds lol(sorta)


As if it means anything lol, I support you no matter what choice you make.

A friend of mine is on her(his, technically still) way to becoming a girl, and I'm one of the few friends that have stood by her so far. Many people have sort of disappeared now that she's made her decision to change her body. It pains me to see how people can be so cruel too... Sometimes, she'll call me up bawling, her former best friend since she was 7(now 19) is absolutely disgusted by her(on top of many others, but he hurts the worst).

I'm not saying you have to, because many people do so without... but it'd be good for you to surround yourself with friends that understand and accept your decision. Having to go it alone makes it so much harder.