Could a 17 year old date a 25 year old?

[Hercuflea]

Hey I got rejected at a restaurant yesterday by this freaking smokin hot waitress. She said she was from Russia and she was 25. I asked her playfully if she had a sister and she said yeah but shes 20, and i thought to my self, what???? 20 is easy i can handle a 20 yr old. Well she had a russian accent so that pretty much sent it over the top for me she was so beautiful. I wrote my number down on the ticket and gave it to her and wrote "call me!" but when she brought back the change she passed it to the girl sitting next to me and said "Here, give this to the boy." I AM NOT A BOY! I AM 17 YEARS OLD, 6 FEET TALL 235LB AND CAN GROW A BEARD! I CALL BSBSBSBSBSBSSBSBBSSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSSBSBSBSBSBSBSBS I will never live that down the girls i was sittting with will be making fun of me for that forever lol

[Invader]

It just means that your standards for being a "man" are much lower than hers. Don't take it personally.

[CoLd BlooDed]

You are seventeen. You are still a boy. I'm almost nineteen and I am still a boy.

[Hercuflea]

@ invader what do you mean by that Im not a god dam boy! gtfo she could have been my future wife ffs

[Jeff777]

she could have been my future wife ffs Frankly, hearing a statement like that from a 17 year old boy scares me. You're entirely too young to even consider giving a girl your last name.

[Universal Mind]

Hercuflea, you are not old enough to legally be independent from your parent/guardian, vote, watch porn, get your own hotel room, drink alcohol (more than 3 years to go), or go skydiving without a guardian's signature. You have another 8 years before you can get your own condo on the beach in Florida. Most people your age are still in high school. You are a "kid" by the standard definition. That waitress knew that. In some states, she could go to prison for having sex with you. She doesn't want to go to prison, to get her picture on Fox News while O'Reilly tears her up, or to have somebody in your family coming after her with a shotgun. She is probably not into 17 year olds any way. When you are 25, you will understand. It was a rejection of your age, not you as a person.

[Taosaur]

Don't you people watch Weeds? It would be totally okay if she owned a cheese shop.

[DuB]

but when she brought back the change she passed it to the girl sitting next to me and said "Here, give this to the boy." Am I the only one who thinks this is hilarious? I want to give the waitress a high five for that burn!

[blahaha]

Am I the only one who thinks this is hilarious? I want to give the waitress a high five for that burn! Haha I'm with ya. You wanna know something really weird though? I'm 19 and women in their mid 30's are always hitting on me. It's friggin weird. Seriously though, it was probably because of your age, man. When I'm 25 I won't be going after 17 year olds. Don't take offense by it.

[Lëzen]

You are seventeen. You are still a boy. I'm almost nineteen and I am still a boy. I'm freakin' twenty and I'm still a boy. Or at least I feel as such. I think a lot of people feel like they're still kids up until they look in the mirror one day and start to see crow's feet and various other signs of aging (the lyrics to Dream On come to mind). @ invader what do you mean by that Im not a god dam boy! gtfo she could have been my future wife ffs No offense, dude, but the way you type, I kind of see that she's justified in treating you like a kid.

[Replicon]

Anyone who says "gtfo" on the internet is still a boy. Kudos to you for being ballsy! Indeed, you've been served (hehe couldn't resist), but now you have an awesome story. I loved it! Honestly, I don't think it's really the age thing that mattered to her. If you had come across the right way, she probably woulda fucked you. I have a feeling you came across in that "high school jock" kind of way, though. You didn't act all Stiffler-like, did you?

[spockman]

It really depends on the state/country, man. http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm

[CoLd BlooDed]

I'm freakin' twenty and I'm still a boy. Or at least I feel as such. I think a lot of people feel like they're still kids up until they look in the mirror one day and start to see crow's feet and various other signs of aging (the lyrics to Dream On come to mind). For me, it's not so much as feeling like a kid as knowing that in the scheme of things I still am. 19, 20, 21... all still very, very young ages.

[Mes Tarrant]

Hercuflea, you are not old enough to legally be independent from your parent/guardian, vote, watch porn, get your own hotel room, drink alcohol (more than 3 years to go), or go skydiving without a guardian's signature. You have another 8 years before you can get your own condo on the beach in Florida. Most people your age are still in high school. You are a "kid" by the standard definition. That waitress knew that. In some states, she could go to prison for having sex with you. She doesn't want to go to prison, to get her picture on Fox News while O'Reilly tears her up, or to have somebody in your family coming after her with a shotgun. She is probably not into 17 year olds any way. When you are 25, you will understand. It was a rejection of your age, not you as a person. Yes yes yes! QFT! Man I'm 22 and I wouldn't go for a typical 17 year old because a) I'd go to jail and b).... there's just an enormous difference between a teenager and an adult in sooooooOOOOOOooooo many ways. For me, it's not so much as feeling like a kid as knowing that in the scheme of things I still am. 19, 20, 21... all still very, very young ages. It's funny because... Okay... I know what I want to say, but for some reason I can't put it into words. UGH I must be tired. Um. The number at which someone is still considered young these days is higher than in the recent past, and seems to be rapidly increasing. IMO. Make sense?

[Man of Steel]

Makes perfect sense, Mes. We're raising much more immature youth these days than in previous generations. Take for example the West, in the 1800's; boys sixteen years old were driving cattle hundreds of miles, carrying guns, and using them responsibly, because they had to in order to help put food on the table for their family. Nowadays, what responsibilities does the average sixteen year old have? Keeping up his or her grades and cooking supper on the nights his or her parents work late. I'll be twenty in a little over two weeks, I have a scruffy beard, stand at nearly six feet tall, I work for myself, and I consider myself to be mature and responsible. But I'm not a man yet. Not by my own personal definition of what a man should be. I've got a lot of learning and changing of my persona before I'll be a man. The waitress was right to 'reject' you. Don't let your indignation get in the way of your logic, Hercuflea. You're not a man.

[13redfan]

When I was 17 I was playing senior soccer at a club near my house. Most of the guys on the team were in their mid 20s, some over 30 some a bit younger. We went to a club after a game, and the one guy's sister tagged along, with 3 or 4 of her friends. I was chatting to them, standing in this club surrounded by 4 or 5 hot girls, all at least 5 years or more older than me, feeling confident that these girls were hitting on me. After a few beers and chatting, I'd asked the girls what they were doing, if they were studying etc. and the one girl asked me what I was doing. I said "I'm in school" and within 5 seconds they all had vanished, suddenly looking at me like I was running around in nappies. It's something you don't quite grasp until you're that age. I'm 22 now, and I feel like when I was 17 I was a complete fool. Of course, at 17, much like you, I was the bees knees, so over confident and "mature" that I couldn't understand why these girls didn't want me simply because I was young. In time, it will all make sense.

[CoLd BlooDed]

I once got with a 21-year old when I was seventeen at a staff party... lmao. Boo-yah-gah.

[Catbus]

@ invader what do you mean by that I think what he means is that though you may consider yourself mature, her views on what maturity is are different than what yours are.

[Hercuflea]

Yeah but she could not possibly know what the level of my maturity is by simply knowing my age and nothing else about me. All she has to go by is the average teenage stereotype. I was just in a really good/playful mood that night and thats why I gave her my number/flirted etc. Yeah, i guess 17y/o boy with a 25 y/o probably wouldnt work, but i still hold my ground that she was the freakin hottest waitress i have ever seen Damn it

[Adam]

Well played!

[Catbus]

Yeah but she could not possibly know what the level of my maturity is by simply knowing my age and nothing else about me. All she has to go by is the average teenage stereotype. You gotta also think, she probably gets hit on/flirted to a lot from people your age (and older for that matter), and if I was a smokin' hot waitress I would get pretty annoyed of getting hit on all the time. So it probably wasn't all you as much as it was being hit on a lot, at least, that's my thinking.

[hisnameistyler]

lmao. Boo-yah-gah. I looked at that, then looked at your avatar, and fucking laughed so hard. It fit perfectly. Thank you.

[Michael]

At least you tried. There are plenty more =) Besides, most russian women are bitches. Just because they have sexy accents they can be like that.

[Mes Tarrant]

Besides, most russian women are bitches. Just because they have sexy accents they can be like that. I'm Russian and I was gonna get all offended-like, but... actually... it's true!

[Adam]

I'm Russian and I was gonna get all offended-like, but... actually... it's true!