ld girlfriend?

[mylucidworld]

what i want to know who out of u lders out there has or had a ld girlfriend and whats it like?

[KuRoSaKi]

A Lucid Dream girlfriend? Like a DC who is your girlfriend? Is that even possible? To be able to summon a DC that often I wonder if it is even possible to achieve, is it? I don't even know this is possible, but my opinion is not. To be able to consitently summon a DC often enough to even call her your LD girlfriend I dunno.

[mylucidworld]

yeh iv heard someone on here before who said they had an ld girlfriend who's name was rebecca i think but i was wondering if anyone else had an ld girlfriend, i don't see how that wud work myself, i think i might try that in my next ld which hopefully will be 2nite.

[Snooze]

sounds a bit narcistic.

[KuRoSaKi]

yeh iv heard someone on here before who said they had an ld girlfriend who's name was rebecca i think but i was wondering if anyone else had an ld girlfriend, i don't see how that wud work myself, i think i might try that in my next ld which hopefully will be 2nite. I thought that was a Dreamguide or maybe I am thinking of something else entirely

[Clairity]

Well, I've had a few dream character "boyfriends" but the "relationship" only lasted the one dream! .

[Shaera]

Well a LD boyfriend is something I never had, but something similar to it is, someone you really like in real life and drag/forecing him/her into your dreams at will, and in those dreams you are in love [like together] not really an Boyfriend, but more a sort of, well lover or something. Just dreams about kissing him or something alike, and if it's one person in general you dream about like that, it could be seen as an LD boy/girlfriend I guess..

[Adam]

sounds a bit narcistic. I wouldn't say so really, but to 'want' one you have to question the life they would live in order to actually feel they need or want this?

[Cammy]

A real life girlfriend is enough grief, dont want one in my LD's as well :p

[stuetzl]

maybe it's not really a part of this thread, but I think it's the same direction. For, I'm not having a girlfriend at the moment I would be curious about what my mind respectively my subconscious mind produced if I asked in an LD about "my dreamgirl"... like "ctrl+f 'search dreamgirl' "... have you ever tried a similar thing? Naturally, I don't want an LD-girlfriend, I'm just curious about things I can't really describe with the conscious mind (I really suck at describing real people or even faces, so it's really hard for me), but I'm sure that my subconscious mind has a certain image...

[mylucidworld]

that wud be interesting.

[Namcosis]

A Lucid Dream girlfriend? Like a DC who is your girlfriend? Is that even possible? To be able to summon a DC that often I wonder if it is even possible to achieve, is it? I don't even know this is possible, but my opinion is not. To be able to consitently summon a DC often enough to even call her your LD girlfriend I dunno. Well it's not all that hard brandon i find it just depends how clearly you think and you're ability to manipulate you're dreams . stuetzl just telling you now a dream girlfriend or any person you make in you're dreams is only as smart as you think they are also sub conscious can be a pain depending on the person XD.

[Kromoh]

I wouln't say it's impossible. for a long time in my life I had imaginary friends, and I'd think of them all the time, so it wouldn't be hard to summon them in my dreams every time would rock though. wel even if I had a dream boyfriend, I'd make him look like the person I like, and as I'm constantly thinking of him, it shouldn't be hard to summon either still, having a dream girl/boyfriend is bittersweet. partly because that means you can't find yourself a real one, but also means you rock at LDin so much that you live a second life in it often I dream I have a date/boyfriend, but t's never the same person. even though, I just keep to myself they're all the same person, only with different appearances

[trigotron]

This is a tricky/interesting subject, i would like to hear more from some experienced people on their opinions of this.

[1342576]

I've kissed the girl I will never have in a lucid dream. Unfortunately, I closed my eyes in the process (habits) and I woke as a result. The problem was, I have a girlfriend. And it does mess with your mind. My advice: don't do this unless you want to love an illusion. Which, by the way, can be pretty fantastic. Still, I'm not going there again.

[Jdeadevil]

Mes Tarrant can be my LD girlfriend anyday... Oh don't worry! I told AdamA he doesn't have to bothor about waking up tommorow! I'm joking... Not about the first sentence though! That's still true, *roar*

[FooFightersKid]

this one time my penis

[Rodent]

A little offtopic, but is it possible to create a DC and then for example hug it? Does it feel real?

[Clairity]

is it possible to create a DC and then for example hug it? Does it feel real? Yes.. yes.. and extremely. .

[Kromoh]

A little offtopic, but is it possible to create a DC and then for example hug it? Does it feel real? more real than in real life. As I stated in another topic, in your dreams, your thoughts aren't blocked by the barriors of your mind. If you think "that boy/girl is cute" in a dream, even if you haven't even seen him/her, they will be cute that's why I still believe dream sex can be better than real one.. just think to yourself that is your best sex ever and it will be lol

[Infraredkelp]

A Lucid Dream girlfriend? Like a DC who is your girlfriend? Is that even possible? To be able to summon a DC that often I wonder if it is even possible to achieve, is it? I don't even know this is possible, but my opinion is not. To be able to consitently summon a DC often enough to even call her your LD girlfriend I dunno. Are you kidding? I have LDs every night! My girlfriend at the moment is Mileena from Mortal Kombat . She's more like a friend with benefits, but eh, you get the point.

[trigotron]

more real than in real life. As I stated in another topic, in your dreams, your thoughts aren't blocked by the barriors of your mind. If you think "that boy/girl is cute" in a dream, even if you haven't even seen him/her, they will be cute that's why I still believe dream sex can be better than real one.. just think to yourself that is your best sex ever and it will be lol it's statements like this that get me interested in lucidity. Damn, makes me want to have an LD tonight

[LBT Petrie]

Yeah I dunno about a girlfriend. I mean sure there have been characters for just a single dream. I dont think a re-occuring character is possible. I mean creating a partner in a dream with the same characteristics and looks every single time? If someone could do it, I dont think it would be good. I mean having a "relationship" with someone who doesnt exist could be very unhealthy.

[Carôusoul]

I don't know. My aim in achieving ludicity is power. Not a relationship. Anyone can get that in real life, what anyone Can't do is become a demi-god. Also if I did start trying for a LD girlfriend I would probably start forgetting about it in real life, and become like a social failure...

[trigotron]

I mean having a "relationship" with someone who doesnt exist could be very unhealthy. I wouldn't say so really, but to 'want' one you have to question the life they would live in order to actually feel they need or want this? WARNING - Massive Analogy Alert - WARNING Allow me to illustrate a pair of scenarios: a 7 year old boy wants very badly to see a specific movie, this boy has wanted to see this movie for many years, but his parents would never let him see it for some reason or another. This boy decides to download the movie off the internet and watch it for free, sure, it's not right, sure, it's not as good an experience as watching it in the theater or even on a TV, but it's better than never seeing it at all, he tells himself. Now imagine someone who had never had a girlfriend; in fact, he never had anything even had anything close to a girl friend his entire life. In his freshman year in highschool, he starts playing an MMO, and after 6 months he finds that a girl likes him in the game, he is overjoyed. However, he soon realizes how pathetic the situation is that he likes a girl who isn't real. He decides to quit the MMO forever. In his junior year in highschool he still has never even talked to a girl or gotten within one foot of a girl and he decides that even if a virtual relationship isn't real, it's better than nothing. So he begins to play the MMO again, he finds the girl that once liked him, but she admits she never actually liked him, that she was simply "joking around". Well, at this point this man becomes quite depressed, and starts drinking, alone, by his senior year. The comments that i quoted are entirely correct in 99.9% of all scenarios involving lucid girlfriends, however, i believe there are very clear exceptions to the rule. A downloaded movie is acceptable to use (at least morally) if no other means exist to obtain that movie legally (ie, the guy wouldn't have been able to watch it anyway). A lucid girlfriend is certainly not as escapist as an MMO, and not nearly as destructive as drinking, and if no other means exist, it is morally acceptable because the guy wouldn't have known love any other way. As you can see I like analogies :p this is just a really big one.