I met my boyfriend in a Lucid Dream!

**glow-in-the-dark** · 04-12-2005 10:44 PM

Hello there everyone, I'm new here. I thought I would share this with you to let you all know that meeting someone in your dreams IS POSSIBLE. I was pretty skeptic myself until it happened. Well, it all started with that little phrase Ethan (my boyfriend) and I would say to each other before bed every night..."See you in Dreamland!" We would try to meet each other in our dreams, but it would never work. And then it eventually became our cute little saying before bed each night.
About 3 weeks later, we had given up. We got off the phone and went to bed early. That was the night it happened. It actually didn't start out with a lucid dream. It started out, I was making out with my ex-boyfriend, whom I have absolutely no good feelings for (not even friendship), and I stopped. I said, "You're not Ethan." And he said, "Yes I am!" and then I knew I was dreaming because I would never be caught dead kissing my ex-boyfriend. He got very aggravated and stormed out of the cabin-like place we were in. Then Ethan appeared on a bench in sitting between several shadowy figures. "Ethan!" I said, "We finally did it!" I was so happy! He looked at me the whole time but never said a word. "Where do you want to go?" I asked. I didn't get a response so I said something along the line of "The beach." I hugged him tightly and then we were standing right in the middle of a beach! We went swimming out in the ocean and I remember the sea-level was VERY high. And the water was extremely deep. Your first step in was atleast a 10--12 foot drop. Well, we swam for a while but the waves were coming over my head so I got out while he was really far into the ocean. He came back when he realized I didn't want to stay there. We walked across the street to a sort of amosement park right on the beach. We went on this one particular ride that I remember so clearly. It was a water ride. 1 person would climb upon this big blue-green translucent gem and wrap all fours around it as if they were hanging on for dear life and the gem would float through the little water maze. And on the bottom of the maze were little cartoony paintings for you to enjoy throughout your ride. I remember a painting of a shark that had a note beside of it that said: "Don't be scared of the shark. It's not real." I thought that was sort of funny. *BAM!!* My dream ends because my mom woke me up. Heh, horrible I know. I don't get a lucid dream in 2 months and she has to wake me up of all days. But ANYWAY, that's not what made me believe that my lucid dream was a REAL lucid dream. I knew my mind didn't trick itself into thinking it was lucid...because when I talked to Ethan later that day he said, "I had a really good dream about you last night." I was like "Oh my god! It was real! My mind wasn't playing tricks on me!" and I asked him what it was about!!! He said, "We were at the beach." I was laughing because I was so excited. So I asked him if he was lucid. He said "No, it was just a regular dream".
I believe we met in that dream. I believe the reason he never talked in the dream was because he wasn't lucid. When I saw him in the dream he had a blank stare on his face like

. I believe when you're with people you know in your dreams...that you are TRULY with their spirit. The only reason that people don't do what they want...is because they are not lucid. Now, a lucid dream with a partner who is ALSO lucid? THAT would be great! Please let me know if you have had any experiences like this because I feel like I am beside myself right now. Nobody believes me except for Ethan. My parents laugh at me, etc. I came here because I knew you guys would understand. Thank you so much.

*hugs*

**Clairity** · 04-13-2005 06:26 AM

I envy you this experience.. it must be wonderful to know that you shared a dream with someone who means so much to you.

**regetsref** · 04-13-2005 06:38 AM

Yeah thats great, I have been trying the same thing with no success yet, but now I know its possible so hopefully it will encourage us.

**Leo Volont** · 04-13-2005 09:00 AM

Dear Glowen

years ago I met a good friend in a dream. We were both starving students at college and we did not meet in a dream in order to enjoy each other's company, but met only because we both had the same place in mind --- The Cafeteria. Neither of us were lucid but we were both quite coherent as we discussed the foods available on the different lines. When we saw each other the next day, it quite surprised us that we both could recount the very same details of the dream.

So, perhaps instead of planning to meet each other, as the operative condition, maybe you should rather decide to simply go to the same place. Perhaps the Dream Mind relates better to WHERE than to WHO.

**irishcream** · 04-14-2005 08:36 PM

i've done this with one person. someone i feel close to irl, and i often meet him in my dreams. Not so much by prior arrangement, but he seems to appear.
and then we spend a little time together, just walking, talking.
it's nice!

**glow-in-the-dark** · 04-18-2005 04:11 AM

All I have to say is keep trying fersteger; and if it doesn't happen...give up...and it will happen. Lol, yeah, that's very convincing! Wow, ohmigosh, I didn't know other people have done it, too. That's great. I'm very interested in this now. Does anyone know of any dreaming techniques for meeting people in your dreams? Or does it just happen spiritually?

Ever since that dream, my dreams have been more interesting and inspiring like they used to be.

**Sorcera** · 04-18-2005 01:18 PM

I totally agree with you. Ive been working on experiencing this with someone specific and was not having any luck until last night. I was low level lucid at the time and the more I think about it, the more Im sure they were not lucid at all. I will keep working on this, as I think I was with his 'higher self' and I believe if I keep trying I will be able to meet him while we are both lucid.

Im glad to see you had success. Its encouraging!

**glow-in-the-dark** · 04-25-2005 02:03 AM

Aw, thank you Sorcera!

I'm excited! I'm going to keep trying this. I'm encouraging him to keep trying as well. I haven't been lucid recently, but my dreams are very weird...like a videogame/storyline with lots of characters. Anyway, I'm getting off subject. But, does anyone have any ideas of places you can meet someone special in a dream? Like, a romantic date you would have never dreamed of? (Literally.)

**Gwendolyn** · 04-25-2005 02:41 AM

Well, I've never doubted the fact that sharing dreams is possible. Once, when I was about 12 or 13, I had this dream that I was at a big party. Everyone I knew was there, and everyone was also lined up on two opposite sides of the room....On the side I was on, there was a gigantic purple couch, and everyone on that side was sitting side by side on it, talking. You could see people lined up on both sides of the room, and the line of people never seemed to end. I saw my friend who I'd been hanging out with a lot at that time, but never really did anything more than glance at her. The next morning, she was describing my own dream back to me! She and I had experienced the same dream! It was neat, knowing that others could be in dreams as me. Perhaps this happens more than people would expect, and don't know it because they don't talk about it to the person who was in the dream...

**glow-in-the-dark** · 04-25-2005 06:19 PM

That's exactly what I was thinking! Most dreams that you have with people you know in them are sexual or embarrassing so you don't want to share them. So two people could possibly have the same dream together and not ever share it because of embarassment even though their dream was actually fused together. I've heard elsewhere that the reason for "fused"/shared dreams is because of your vibration level or something similar to that. Somewhere else in the forums, someone implied that if you and a partner get a tape recorder/CD with a song with no vocals but just beats, not even intrumental (maybe just drums doing the same beat over and over) that your minds will get the same vibration from the song and when you fall asleep to the song with your partner, that they will have the same vibration as you and your dreams will fuse.

** I'm not sure if this works, so my partner and I are going to test it out for a week or so.

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