Sexual experience

[HastyAngel]

I am not saying that there is anything wrong with being gay but I can tell you that I am not, but my dream saturday night would question that. I was hanging out with a couple of my friends and 2 girls, of who I dont know started "HITTING" on me. The more I tried to walk away the more sexual they got and a couple of my guy friends were definatly tring to agg it on. I was very lucid at the beginning, and doing well at walking away from the situation, but towards the end of my dream I was no longer in control. I will not go into details but I can tell you that some things happened tha I have never done before. You can use your imagination as to what happened. I was at a dance club last weekend and drank ALOT. I was out on the dance floor with my friends and there was some random girl who started dancing with me and kissed me, and I did not stop her. There are other of my friends who have kissed girls before but I know the are not lesbian and I can tell you that I am not attracted to girls. Do you think that my dream had anyhing to do wth what happened at the dance club? Has anyone had this experiance before?

[Seeker]

Hmm, I'll echo what you said. Nothing wrong with it at all. I've had non-lucid gay dreams before. About your dream having something to do with it? Maybe it made you a little more "open" to the experience?

[Barbizzle]

The dream problably had to do wiht yoru recent kissing experince. Everyone, including me, has had "gay" dreams, its part of being human i suppose havign dreams like that. I mean it has to eb beacse eveyrone has them.

[Tornado Joe]

Woo hoo, I need a sec here to cool off..... whew... ok: Well, I agree with Seek and Bizzle that the recent experience had some effect on your dream. I wouldn't freak out about it if I were you - I bet we've all had strange dreams involving members of the same sex, animals, plants, appliances, etc --- well, some of those things, anyways. I've been doing some reading on Carl Jung recently and there's this thing about Anima and Animus that you might want to look into. Basically it's saying that we all have a Male and Female part to us and that being in touch with both creates balance within ourselves. Maybe this has something to do with it, maybe not - just thought I'd mention it. On a personal note, I tend to understand how it is easier for women (heterosexual) women to find other women attractive. The female form (in my opinion) is pretty much a symbol of beauty itself - something to be admired, cherished, posessed, etc. The female has a "pulling" quality towards herself, where I think the male is a more "pushing" or "seeking" quality. Since we all have both qualities, women (naturally) have the strongest pulling quality in their physical (or biological) appearance that can get the attention of the male "seeking" quality in both sexes. -- what the hell did I just ramble about?

[TygrHawk]

Originally posted by Tornado Joe I tend to understand how it is easier for women (heterosexual) women to find other women attractive. Personally, I think the only thing that men find more difficult is to admit that they find other guys attractive.

[dreamtamer007]

Originally posted by Tornado Joe - I bet we've all had strange dreams involving members of the same sex, animals, plants, appliances, etc --- well, some of those things, anyways. ] Lol

[Seeker]

Originally posted by TygrHawk Personally, I think the only thing that men find more difficult is to admit that they find other guys attractive. Yeah, Joe is one sexy sucka!

[InTheMoment]

Originally posted by Seeker Yeah, Joe is one sexy sucka! Not too mention, he gives one of the most satisfying hand jobs this side of the Mississippi.

[Ernesto]

Barbizzle: Everyone, including me, has had \"gay\" dreams[/b] I have to disagree on this, I personally never have sex dreams unless I´m lucid and in the mood 8) (jejejejeje) Tornado Joe: Woo hoo, I need a sec here to cool off..... whew... ok[/b] I have to agree on this. LOL .......to aid imagination

[Tornado Joe]

Originally posted by Moment Not too mention, he gives one of the most satisfying hand jobs this side of the Mississippi. Easy there, fella - my crotch gets jealous when it hears it's been cheated on by mr. hand!

[Ernesto]

LOL.... Then some other guy would go affirmative, "but they are!!". jejejejejejeje But to carry on with the real subject, Hasty Angel, I personally wouldn´t dwell too much on it, by the end I think dreams just tell you subconcious thoughts, or strangely, futurisitc reality (this ones you´ll eventually know about them as they come true ). If you are sure you ain´t gay then there is no harm unless you make yourself belive it or dwell enough to try it(and this goes for any subject, not just sex).

[Oneironaut Zero]

I've been doing some reading on Carl Jung recently and there's this thing about Anima and Animus that you might want to look into. Basically it's saying that we all have a Male and Female part to us and that being in touch with both creates balance within ourselves. Maybe this has something to do with it, maybe not - just thought I'd mention it. On a personal note, I tend to understand how it is easier for women (heterosexual) women to find other women attractive. The female form (in my opinion) is pretty much a symbol of beauty itself - something to be admired, cherished, posessed, etc. The female has a \"pulling\" quality towards herself, where I think the male is a more \"pushing\" or \"seeking\" quality. Since we all have both qualities, women (naturally) have the strongest pulling quality in their physical (or biological) appearance that can get the attention of the male \"seeking\" quality in both sexes. wtf -- what the hell did I just ramble about?[/b] Lol. That's a very good point about the Anima/Animus. I've been reading up on Jung lately also, but I didn't even think about it until you brought it up. And I agree with you about the female form. As an artist, I've always thought that way (as corny as That sounds) but it's also brought me to notice that Most of the females I've observed (as people-watching is one of my favorite hobbies) feel the same way. Even if they are 100% straight, allegedly, many of them can't deny how much more beautiful woman is than man. Sexually, psychologically, they feel the society grown repulsion (that men usually feel on a Much higher scale) from the same sex, but I think that subconsciously that admiration and respect is still there. And I think that deep-rooted, most likely natural, and quite possibly instinctual attraction just got the best of Angel at that time. That fact that you had a dream about it, and quite possibly will have again, isn't anything to be concerned of, but probably more something that you will want to analyze while you're dreaming, if it does happen again. Think about how it makes you feel. Are you repulsed by it? You said that one the dancefloor you didn't stop her, but why didn't you? Was it curiousity, or desire? I don't think that either is something to be ashamed of, but they are important to question if you're wondering why the memory is bouncing around in your head the way that it is.