Thread: The first 'real' one.

About half my DILD's are like that. I don't ever "realize" im dreaming, at least not that I can remember. And as far as dream control goes, that's just how your first lucid dreams are usually. Mine were the same way, very hard to control and not super vivid. If you continue to lucid dreams you'll get a lot more comfortable in and farmiliar the dream state, so you will gain control over the dream. It is all a matter of true expectation. I personally have a dream guide to assist me with dream control, who I created a few months ago. He is basically a better version of me, or the person that I want to become. When I created him, I told myself that he can control anything and everything in my dream. He is kind of the supervisor of my dreamworld. He uses a wide variety of dream technology to control it, so once I develop the expectation and trust in the technology, he let's me use it in my lucid dreams that he is not in.

Thank you for your input. Does this dream guide help you remain stable? Or does he act like your subconscious which takes over when it's not working out in the dream? Just wondering how exactly he helps you out.