Ok... so I've been gone for a year or so, and all this lucid cyber sex stuff is new to me on forum, but I think is extremely funny because it really doesn't work the way most imagine it to. Hehe, let me explain:

Collective consciousness as a whole connects all life forms.
All Thoughts and Dreams are shared, all the time.

It takes a very, very, very, very, very powerful lucid dreamer to find an individual.
I am not saying it doesn't work, it does.^^

But the idea of sending a message to a person so far away in the cold online world
seems improbable. Although there always random exceptions.

True Love, and concepts of soul mates come in here. These are the people who can actually allocate eachother's dreams and do tha wild thang, as it were.

Lust is different. Since most faces and bodies change rapidly in dreams, I think it is most likely that all these young attempts at cyber-lucid romance, is really just a giant random dream orgy.

It would seem that the desires of people whom only partially know eachother may connect at short, spastic moments of truth, but that the real parts of the dream are familiar neural memories of sexual experience, or what have you. It's really millions of random people Dreaming, Experiencing, and Remebering these moments simultaneously, and each one of them then has the "Lucid sex" experience.

So...lol.. there's a theory to toss around.
The % of actually meeting a person varies with actually knowing them, or really empathizing with their situation. Some achieve it, others are decieved, still others lie and embelish, and only the secrets of their hearts know the truth. Still, the level of Lucidity required to do this consistantly is quite remarkably high.

Also, careful what you spend your sleeping moments on. This life is not just sex, but many, many more wonderous things things to explore together, or even in groups, there are always experiences to be had. ADventures! Dragons! Endless worlds to explore!! All the same, if you do achieve this with any consistancy, you begin to learn much about your bodys., Heh, wink wink, nudge nudge, say no more. =P

So there you have it. What do you all think, is it real??