It sounds like you were only semi-lucid- As for when someone is fully 100% lucid, it is VERY apparent, ESPEICALLY your first one. Your conscious mind is so fully awake already, even when the dream ends it doesn't seem like you've missed a beat, or that you even "woke up"

I can also tell because after you had lucid sex, which you weren't 100% sure you were lucid, the girls face morphed which if you were totally conscious you would have controlled, and you also tried to use a phone and look for a different girls number. That is what a normal dream is like.


However this is not a bad thing. It is fairly common, and happens to even experts at times. It's progress, and still "counts" as an LD.

Keep pushing foward!!!