Thread: Is there boundaries in dreams

I agree completely with Marvo. Buttttttt in the spirit of answering the question. I'm pretty sure if you worked at it you'd be able to follow through wiht your ex. It would be harder, since you are subconciously anticipating the denial. Its your dream, anything is possible, your subconcious also tells you that gravity should hold you down to the ground, you shouldnt' be able to fly. Yet plenty of people do this because they know others have and it's just a dream. It's about getting over that expectation and realizing it's your own dream.

But even thought it's possible, it's probably not worth it. It will take a lot of effort to stay lucid the whole time and actually make it happen, and after you wake up you'll probalby just miss her more. I say get a new and better girl in your dream.

i understand what ur saying but the problem is av bin LDing for nearly 10 years now and i have never had this problem before

but hey cheers anyway

Well, stop thinking about it. Wondering about it, is not a good step, if you want to forget about it and solve the problem.

Yeah, don't think about it because if you do, you'll end up increasing the chances of thise happening in your dreams again. When you get lucid, a dreams main goal is to make you lose your focus so it can have control again and do whatever it wants [at least, that's how I see it] so that could have been its way of throwing you off guard.

In the end think of it like having sex with yourself because it is you're dream just that you're imagining another person to simulate sex so you can help with you're wants and needs .

well i have just thought of what the problem is after reading about what is just being put.

After a long hard think i have come to the conclusion that there is just somethings i cant do in dreams. The whole piont i started this was because i wasnt able to rag my ex in my dreams. I mean i can easily do it to anyone else in a dream but it was just that one thing. Its because as i think i have already put she disagreed to it in real life (dont no y and she cheated on me wasnt like she wasnt getting any) so my sub-contuse stops me from doing it because even in the dream she is real to my sub-contuse because she was a big part of my life so ya carry on the thread to ur leisure but i have kind of worked it out

This is quite unusual jankai. Usually, DCs clamour for sex with LDers. To find one who refuses is not common, but I don't know what to make of it.