Thread: Is there boundaries in dreams

Oh haha, no no, it's not like they are all fat and ugly. There are many nice ones aswell. It's just in my lucids, when I'm like "Shit, I'm gonna get a girl and have fun with her" the only girls I find, are ugly/oldies/fat, and completely unsexy.

And I never recognise girls from other dreams. They are all different, unless they are friends from real life :p

But what you're saying, is that a person's "anima" is the feminine reflection of the person?

Yep, basically. And they don't have to be the same people either, you can have a different looking Anima every night. In fact, I am sure that it would be more to your subconscious' advantage to be able to present these women as many and varied so you could see your femine aspect from many angles.

Maybe as an experiment, next time you summon a girl and she is less than attractive rather than just get rid of her and try again, have a talk to her. Ask her what is her relationship to you, how she feels, what she wants, how long has she been alive, what happens when you are not here (in the dreamworld in which you are talking with her) and whatever else you can think of. You may be pleasantly suprised with your interactions, and healing may take place for her and ultimately for you.

I had a stunning romance late last year with a girl in my dream. At first I was afraid of her and she seemed near-on crazy. She was definitely eccentric and she took me places. We started holding hands half-way through the dream and I was falling in love.

After spending time with each other, doing magic, looking around and stuff, I surfed one of my more lucid moments in the dream (it wavered) and said to her, "Ummmm, do you know if you are part of my creation, my mind? Or are you another entity here on the Astral Plane?"

She looked down at her feet, obviously feeling sad. By her reaction I figured she must be an aspect of myself, which I didn't mind at all. I was about to tell her so when she said, "but doesn't that make us Yin and Yang?"

"Yes! Exactly!" I said happily. Then the dream closed.

Now, granted, my Anima in this situation was young and hot and even adventurous, sexy and eccentric, so it may have been easier for me to engage with her, but I have been embracing (or at least exploring) my feminine side since I started with Wicca when I was 15. I stopped with that a couple of years later in exchange for a more Wholesome spiritual perspective (whole as in One) but continued to honour the women in my life and our world as well as the Yin elements within me.

So yeah, what's there to lose? Maybe your fat Anima will rape you but I doubt it.

Peace,

Daen.