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      Talking Sex in LDs

      This is mentioned rather furtively in a lot of posts i've seen, and I can't find a topic for it...but I'm really curious. for some reason i either don't have sex in my regular dreams, or dont remember the dreams involving sex. It's strange...or is that normal? Either way, I'm not lucid yet and when I am i really don't think sex will be the first (or even fifth...) thing I'll try. But i have heard people say some interesting things about it, and I want to know...what is sex in a lucid like for you? Does it mirror the feeling of real sex (assuming you've had it) accurately? What's the craziest, most creative thing that's happened to you in LD sex?

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      i have been trying to have a sex dream.. whenever im about to enter.. my dream ends....arghhh.... and sex is one of the top reasons i want to become lucid.. i have been having dreams about grils, kissing them,etc...
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      Unfortunately, the excitement usually kills a perfectly good lucid dream. Unless you're expierienced in dream stabilizing and you're willing to risk the LD you have, you might want to try something else.

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      yeah, I've heard that a lot since joining, but apparently a lot of the members do have dream stabilizing skills. lol. I can't imagine wanting to get into LDs solely for sex though, it seems like such a large commitment to something for that 1 purpose!

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      I had a lucid sex dream today while taking a nap. I have been controlling my dreams since I was a kid. I thought I had some kind of power all of my life and now i find that other people can do this. Today before I took a nap I wished and concentrated intently on dreaming about a specific person and I did. I dreamed of that person, had sex with him and it was so real. I felt the whole thing, I remember the feelings vividly, the passion and completed the action. I am still confused as to how it could be a dream and to feel the entire sensation of the action. I also was able to tell the person in the dream that I was dreaming and that it was not real and that I would be leaving soon and was crying about leaving soon. It was like I was in a movie and telling someone that I had come from the future into the past and I was trying to convince the person that I had time-traveled. I also awoke a few times within the nap which lasted a few hours and made myself go right back to the same dream with the same person and each time told him that I had come back and the reason I had left the other times was because I was dreaming and that we had to savor the moment because I would be leaving him again shortly when the dream was over. What scares me is that the more years that pass, the better I get at this. It seems more and more real. Originally, since I was a child, I was able to wake myself from nightmares upon realizing I was dreaming and shutting my eyes tightly in the dream. I would wake myself up intentionally from any nightmare by doing this. Then as I got older, I was able to control my sexual dreams and summon whoever I wanted into a sexual dream. Now it is becoming more and more scary and real because I am feeling the person's body and the sensations which I never felt before. Is anyone like me?

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      Dream characters usually don't want to believe that it's a dream, at least for me.

      It's not unusual for dream experiences to be very much like their real life counterparts. I've never had lucid sex (or very many lucid dreams at all) so I don't know how real mine are. Anyway, it's a good thing, right?

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      I've had lucid sex a few times. One time it felt really nice, but most of the other times, it just felt like I was humping sheets. (Given, the one time I felt something was one of my best lucid dreams.)

      The weirdest thing that's happened to me? That's easy. The second time I had ever had a lucid dream, I dreamed that the woman's breasts suddenly became all glooby and wobbily. It was a strange moment.

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      My LD sex varies in realism, but it's still pretty cool

      For a while it's all I would do when I LDed, "summon beautiful woman," but it will often break lucidity, drawing you back into dream logic, and I've come to see it as an obstacle to better things, like talking to DCs and finding my Dreamguide. Not to mention flying over amazing landscapes and molding the dreamworld.
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      how would Lucid sex be if u didnt have sex in RL? like I havent had sex but in a LD If I can summon jessica alba or beyonce or someone from my class (17 here ) I want it to feel amazing or real. So is there anyone who hasnt had sex yet explain how it felt if they did it in a LD?
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      Quote Originally Posted by lonestarx View Post
      how would Lucid sex be if u didnt have sex in RL? like I havent had sex but in a LD If I can summon jessica alba or beyonce or someone from my class (17 here ) I want it to feel amazing or real. So is there anyone who hasnt had sex yet explain how it felt if they did it in a LD?
      from a girl's perspective? usually the DCs just fall short . like most dream experiences, if u can't imagine what real sex would feel like, then your "inspiration" draws from r/l experiences. i don't have any experience so i don't feel anything inside.

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      At my current level I'm pretty sure the excitement of sex would make it difficult for me to keep the dream stable.
      I'm also in a committed relationship and have some issues as to how far I should even go regarding sex with DCs in a Lucid.

      I have had some very sexual semi-lucids though. Actually it's almost a dreamsign for me, simply because it's so intense I almost become conscious. (my current dreamsign being killing someone, which I know sounds macabre but it shocks me into realising I'm dreaming.)

      At the end of the day though, amazing sex is something you can have in real life... flying over a spectacular landscape is not.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Alban View Post
      my current dreamsign being killing someone
      Good time not to be a DC

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      Quote Originally Posted by blackberry829 View Post

      The weirdest thing that's happened to me?
      Mid intercourse the person turned into me. I woke myself up from that creepy dream immediately.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Alban View Post
      I'm also in a committed relationship and have some issues as to how far I should even go regarding sex with DCs in a Lucid.
      Lol its just like masturbating...well, its a little better than that...

      Masturbation's gross (and actually, real life sex is also kind of gross if you analyse it a bit) but LD sex is perfect, its like being in a movie that lets you feel everything!

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      Quote Originally Posted by Webmaster View Post
      Good time not to be a DC
      Hmm... disturbingly it's more often than not a member of my family, so... good time not to be related to me.
      I have issues.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sandform View Post
      Mid intercourse the person turned into me. I woke myself up from that creepy dream immediately.
      Ahahahaha, that WOULD be weird.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sandform View Post
      Mid intercourse the person turned into me. I woke myself up from that creepy dream immediately.
      That;s actually a fantasy of mine..

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      Never had sex in a dream until I lost my virginity. Then I'd occasionally get laid in my sleep and it was every bit as satisfying as the real thing. I think flying is more fun, though. Why waste dreams on something you can do in RL?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sandform View Post
      Masturbation's gross (and actually, real life sex is also kind of gross if you analyse it a bit)
      This is true. You make a very good point on the benefits of LD sex there as well, Sandform.

      Think I still prefer the real-life thing tho - I quite like gross stuff.

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      OMG sex in my LD's is 1000 times better than sex in reality.. it feels sooo0ooooooo good in dreams for me,,, much better than in reality..

      you asked for the craziest sex experience.. this might be disturbing but once i was having sex, and his penis came all the way up to my throat that i started choking, and it kinda broke apart in my mouth. didnt creep me out cos i knew i was dreaming but i remember the feeling it was pretty weird....penis going thru my insides into my mouth and falling apart ..... LOL wtffffff


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      Quote Originally Posted by kel View Post
      OMG sex in my LD's is 1000 times better than sex in reality.. it feels sooo0ooooooo good in dreams for me,,, much better than in reality..

      you asked for the craziest sex experience.. this might be disturbing but once i was having sex, and his penis came all the way up to my throat that i started choking, and it kinda broke apart in my mouth. didnt creep me out cos i knew i was dreaming but i remember the feeling it was pretty weird....penis going thru my insides into my mouth and falling apart ..... LOL wtffffff
      that's actually...quite disturbing..i can't really imagine that...how did you get the broken peices of penis out of your mouth? will them away?

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      Quote Originally Posted by kel View Post
      OMG sex in my LD's is 1000 times better than sex in reality.. it feels sooo0ooooooo good in dreams for me,,, much better than in reality..

      you asked for the craziest sex experience.. this might be disturbing but once i was having sex, and his penis came all the way up to my throat that i started choking, and it kinda broke apart in my mouth. didnt creep me out cos i knew i was dreaming but i remember the feeling it was pretty weird....penis going thru my insides into my mouth and falling apart ..... LOL wtffffff
      I stand corrected - apparently LD sex can be as amzingly gross as u want it to be

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      Hmm, sex in LDs.... "Oh im dreaming!" Summon object of lust, move toward object of lust, wake up. "DAMN!!!!"

      I think I'm just going to say screw sex in dreams until i get better control. That's my 2 cents anyway.

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      I think i have mastered lucid sex now because i can now do it without waking up which is great.

      Obviously i am going to wake up next time now.

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      Quote Originally Posted by mylucidworld View Post
      I think i have mastered lucid sex now because i can now do it without waking up which is great.

      Obviously i am going to wake up next time now.
      Because you just convinced yourself you would
      You spend 1/3 of your life asleep, so why waste it?

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