Thread: Lucid sex

Originally Posted by Reality_is_a_Dream

Piss off, this site is for people to help, learn, and share. You are contributimg nothing. This guy has a question and doesn't need any bull from you. Yea, I wen't there.

Well said

Originally Posted by Metronome

Thoughts?
1) why are you sharing this with me?
2) if you're at school, why did you walk back to your parents room to have sex
3) The reason it felt like 2 hands was because the only sexual experience you've ever had was masturbating. frequently, i'd bet.
4) this kid needs to get some pussy

You're just jealous that he had realistic hot sex with his teacher with ease while you've tried so many times and got no results! LOL No hard feelings haha

jk

I've never had an LD, but I have banged a lot of chicks in my dreams. Unfortunately, I suffer from premature awakeulation

Originally Posted by Reality_is_a_Dream

Piss off, this site is for people to help, learn, and share. You are contributimg nothing. This guy has a question and doesn't need any bull from you. Yea, I wen't there.

gorsh, i was just kidding. besides, he asked for thoughts.

The first lucid (DILD) dream I had, I immediately started to have sex with girls I knew. The second one I had, I immediately started to have sex, but I stopped because I wanted to try flying. So, I flew.

...I've yet to try sex whilst flying, though. That seems like it should be my next endeavor....

Originally Posted by orofein

...I've yet to try sex whilst flying, though. That seems like it should be my next endeavor....

Hehe, it was great

Originally Posted by seeker28

A lot of people have or try to have sex in their lucid dreams. It seems that women have an easier time "completing" the act, if you catch my drift. I wonder why this is.

That's a phenomenally strange thing for me to hear, considering it is the man who always completes the act prematurely...whilst the woman is always acting.

Anyway, I don't think I'm gonna be spending too much time trying to have sex in LDs, it seems like a waste of time since I get too excited and wake up before I get anywhere anyway. Time better spent having a non-sexual adventure.

I havent had enough control over lucids to experiment dream sex, but i do plan on experimenting in that field as soon as Im ready. Knowing that the majority of LDers have done it and all say that its a very good experience. So I will propose some possible theories on why it is a very difficult Dream objective:

1. Some LDers (usually noobs like me) tend to get easily exited and occasionally startle themselves awake.

2. Some LDers, who are very concious/aware of their actual body in the Dream State, tend to accidentally move their actual body parts (of course SP negates any actually movement) instead of their dream body. This is always my main concern when using the WILD/WBTB techs.

3. Its difficult maintaining a complicated skill such as sex (esp. if you have never done it) many factors involved that require focus energy such as:

• Summoning your partner of choice while retaining all of his/her physical features

• Actually performing the difficult act of sex while retaining all of those particular features that make your partner who she/he is supposed to be

*So my advice is to go right ahead into your experiments with my and others' advice alongside your own. Dont mind the few immature people trying to pretend like sex is not Human Nature and proven to be very good for the health, if I might add*

It's really not that complicated . . .

If you just grab the nearest DC and go for it, sex in a LD really isn't complicated. For me, since I'm so very aware it is a dream I don't really care "who" I'm doing it with, since it is essentially masturbation. However, the DC generally morphs into someone I find desireable within a matter of seconds.

I agree, it is very normal and a huge goal for lders, i have had 3 in the last month and none wre lucid but they were os real there was no difference to real life, i actually woke u cumming, there are many facets of hte dream world which interest me and sex is one of them,,,,

Originally Posted by Metronome

Thoughts?
1) why are you sharing this with me?
2) if you're at school, why did you walk back to your parents room to have sex
3) The reason it felt like 2 hands was because the only sexual experience you've ever had was masturbating. frequently, i'd bet.
4) this kid needs to get some pussy

1) This wasn't directed at you specifically?
2) I didn't? The room just appeared there and then, i was focused on sexing not my surroundings.
3) As someone said before, lack of pussy gets epic sex dreams. I have had lack of pussy, therefore, sex in dream
4) As a matter of fact the only thing i haven't done yet is have sex.

Leave if you're not gonna contribute to the thread.

Thanks for the replies guys.

Originally Posted by WolfeDreamer531

I havent had enough control over lucids to experiment dream sex, but i do plan on experimenting in that field as soon as Im ready. Knowing that the majority of LDers have done it and all say that its a very good experience. So I will propose some possible theories on why it is a very difficult Dream objective:

1. Some LDers (usually noobs like me) tend to get easily exited and occasionally startle themselves awake.

2. Some LDers, who are very concious/aware of their actual body in the Dream State, tend to accidentally move their actual body parts (of course SP negates any actually movement) instead of their dream body. This is always my main concern when using the WILD/WBTB techs.

3. Its difficult maintaining a complicated skill such as sex (esp. if you have never done it) many factors involved that require focus energy such as:

• Summoning your partner of choice while retaining all of his/her physical features

• Actually performing the difficult act of sex while retaining all of those particular features that make your partner who she/he is supposed to be

*So my advice is to go right ahead into your experiments with my and others' advice alongside your own. Dont mind the few immature people trying to pretend like sex is not Human Nature and proven to be very good for the health, if I might add*

Actually, before this morning I was a sex virgin and a lucid dream virgin. I am now only a sex virgin.

But on the contrary to what you said, sex was easy for me in the dream, and it was easy for my "partner" to retain her physical features.

I also did not get overly excited. I actually got bored after a few seconds and decided to fly.

There are only two reasons I can come up with that describe my lack of excitement and the ease of having dream sex:

1. I figured I was wasting my time doing something I can do in real life instead of going off and doing something impossible in the real world so my excitement for doing something impossible far outweighed my sexual excitement

or

2. I was sleeping on my stomach so that my dick was being pressed against the mattress and my mind knew it would be a bit uncomfortable to become erect.

After getting bored with the sex, I flew through the roof.

Originally Posted by lost_e

Mind you im still a virgin so this was pretty cool.

I was in the school woodwork rooms talking to a teacher, then the room changed to some hallway and the teacher came over and grabbed my arm lightly (Lucid)then i hugged her and we stood there rubbing against each other for a while, then she started rubbing my cock, then we walked into my parents room and i laid her down on the bed and inserted myself, and got the feeling that 2 hands were grabbing my cock, but i looked down and saw it was in, then continued, but didnt cum, instead i just got up and she walked off.

Thats all i can remember. Thoughts?

the way you worded it sounds like getting off at your computer.. i felt like i was reading a short porno story..

that being said great job on your lucid dream its cool that you were able to do what you wanted in the dream, hopefully you can work at it and keep it up(the lucid dreaming i mean lol)

My advice about lucid sex is don't do it unless you are sure you wanna end your dream lol xP.

I have done everything in my lucid dreams but its just been the
last couple of years that i realized i can have sex in them!
Now i practically have sex every time! lol But ill have to read more
of what you all said before i reveal what i do!

Originally Posted by Zilverw0lf

My advice about lucid sex is don't do it unless you are sure you wanna end your dream lol xP.

yes it sure does end but its always the ending im hoping for in the
first place!!

I think the difference in those that find dream sex easy is that they just go with the flow. At lest that's what I'm seeing in the posts so far. If you see an opportunity and go ahead with it, it's easy. But if you try to construct something from scratch it is difficult to maintain.

Personally, lucid sex is never a goal for me. Rather I find myself in the mood in my dream and select an already available partner. Very simple.

Originally Posted by AlexLou

I think the difference in those that find dream sex easy is that they just go with the flow. At lest that's what I'm seeing in the posts so far. If you see an opportunity and go ahead with it, it's easy. But if you try to construct something from scratch it is difficult to maintain.

Personally, lucid sex is never a goal for me. Rather I find myself in the mood in my dream and select an already available partner. Very simple.

I do run into trouble in the sex area also sometimes. The trouble i have
sometimes is, and this is really kind of embarrassing to talk about....but ill
just fly around until i see a guy walking below. Then ill fly down and land
and check him out, if hes not bad looking ill have sex with him lol It only
takes about 30 seconds and im not kidding!! The problem i get sometimes
is first I always have to strip because i know i must do this before it can
be done. But sometimes the involvement and movements it takes to
disrobe wakes me up. lol Once im awake i can very rarely jump right back
into lucid dreaming again, but i have done so. So like you, i dont always
want to have sex, and i can never go to bed expecting to LD. IF it starts
to happen i recognize it and i always go into it. Then if i decide...well im
gonna find a guy and have sex lol what ill do, is disrobe right away, even
before i start flying, and then i just fly around naked, if the act of disrobing
didnt already wake me up. When i spot a guy....im ready to go! lmao!
Not a word of a lie!! I dont have to lie....I LD at least once a week and ive
been LDing for about 25 years now.
Listen you guys tell me if im too explicit please!

you can just will your clothes away

Originally Posted by Hercuflea

you can just will your clothes away

Jeez ive never thought to try that, i wonder if itll work?? Because i cant
always get what i want exactly when i will things to happen. For instance
the guys that i find arent ever who i want them to be. lol I cant ever turn
them into brad pitt for instance. But now im not even sure if i do 'will' stuff,
im thinking that i just let the dream proceed the way its going to. Sometimes
i cant even find a guy!
Heres another thing i can never do in LDing....if i try to talk....i always
always wake up. So I never talk in the dreams.

I've never even thought about taking my clothes off in an LD! I don't know why I hadn't thought about this before . . . but when I need my clothes off, they're just gone, no thought involved. If I was wearing clothes to begin with . . .

whatever i have on when im in bed, thats what im wearing in my LD.
I always have to take them off. But i have never tried to will them
off before, so ill try that next time but i have never willed anything
to happen except for where i want to fly to. I never instantly get
there either, i have to fly there.

Originally Posted by punkstar

why wtf??? u guys are weird. lucid sex is a very common goal among people. you guys havent ever had it? sucks... ive jizzed in a dream, and it felt kinda different .. but it was still real nice... haha. give it a try. u can screw whoever you want in your dreams. i dont really care what anybody says. if ur married, i think it is TOTALLY ok to have sex with other dream characters. idk why else this would be wtf... lol =p i got some head last night in my dream. my cock was also a strange 12 inches for somereason too... hahaha

OMGLMAO!! Do ppl actually say that youre screwing around
on your real life partner if you have lucid sex??
That is too hilarious!! I do it all the time with hubby sleeping right beside
and hes never none the wiser! lol Why in the world would anyone tell
their partner this anyway? I never have....its my dream and no one
elses!