Thread: Please help. First time here. HELP ME with my reocuring dream!!!! PLEASE!!

I keep having reccuring dreams of my ex-husband! They are so real! Help !!!?
I have been having this dream for about two years now. I dream I go to my ex-husbands house and he is crying. His girlfriend is going to be home soon and I try to help him by cleaning his house, cooking for him etc. The dream usually ends with me and him hugging and crying. I tell him I can help him and he tells me there is no help. The dreams are so real that now when I have them he already knows I am coming and we both know that I am dreaming. The dream changes some but is always at what use to be our house and he and I are so sad. Thing is......I haven't seen him for about 5 years now and have no contact with him. This has been going on for about two years now. When the dreams start...they last for about a month, go away then come again after a few months. After the dream..I cry all day and I wake up missing him TERRIBLY. Normally I don't even think about him. Not until the dreams start. What does this mean and can ANYONE HELP ME?????? PLEASE!!!!

These dreams are so real. Last night in the dream we even talked about how glad we were to "meet" in our dreams!!!! I KNOW that is NOT possible so what is going on!!! I loved him more than the air I breathe but thought I was over it. AM over it. This is freaking me out because they are becoming more real and I know I am NOT crazy. He has a girl friend and I am remarried and haven't talked to him in 5 years! What is going on? Has this ever happened to anyone else???? Help!!!