Thread: Desperate for a little help.

Ok, first thing's first, welcome to the forum.

From what I can understand from what you typed, you absolutely adore the guy who's name isn't mentioned. But yet you have dreams about his friend Kevin which involves extreme romance, correct? From what you explained in detail from telling us what they have in common, I think I know the reason of your repeating dreams. Your subconscious is you, you'll need to understand that, and through your dreams, it secretly tells you personally your inner feelings.

I don't want to disappoint you but in the physical world you can say all you want but when it comes down to it, the truth is sometimes buried deep inside, and that's the trouble I think you may be going through right now.

Sexual attraction also plays a possible part in this, and it's important to ignore this feeling. Because as we all know, or should know, love and sexual attraction are two entirely different things but it can get in the way of relationships. You may like Kevin more than you like the person you mentioned first, and your inner voice is possibly trying to tell you that whilst you're ignoring it trying to make it go away, like an annoying nightmare that won't stop.

I've read about somebody once that had recurring nightmares about a haunted house with haunted events and objects, that with the knowledge of the analogy, he was able to figure out that it was all like real life in some way or another.

Take all of what I just said into consideration, but ignore the things you cannot handle. It's for the best. And good look in finding out the truth.

A lot more people will have advice for you as well so you need not to worry.

Thanks.

It's just such a wierd feeling, you know?
I rarely think of Kevin in a romantic way outside of my sleep, and I really don't see him as often as I used to. :/ And yet all these dreams!

Ever since taking psychology, I've tried to be more open to the idea of the subconcious. For some reason, it's been a hard concept for me to grasp. A part of me really wants to believe that dreams have no meaning whatsoever, but I know that I need to listen to myself.

Thanks for helping, though.

Jdeadevil said it best. The dream doesn't involve sex. Which is a big thing. It's not a simple attraction. You're fantasizing about a real relationship. I don't think it's a metaphor. I think it's 100% honesty.

I am sure you love your boyfriend, but you also seem to have a huge attraction to this Kevin. My advice, think your relationship over. Think about time away from your boyfriend. I don't mean go after Kevin. That's coming from someone who knows ZERO about your relationship with your boyfriend. Only someone who is judging by your dream.

:/ Yeah. I can see how that could be.


I think I will take some time to myself and think things through. If I've had this many dreams about it, it's definitely something I should pay attention to. Thank you.