I am dedicating this post to a friend of mine. There were two brothers I hung out with and one joined the army. When he got out on leave we would hang as usual. He said the army made a man of him. He told us that you’re not a man unless you can make love to a woman, not just sex. Well I think we all had the same thought going through our minds {what he heck is he talking about?}. Anyway both of the brothers went into a guy’s apartment that night to tried and recover some money from a pot deal gone bad. They both were stabbed with a knife and the lover died. Sad story but true. Anyway, in his honor I would like to ask what your opinion is. Does it matter if there is love with the sex or can you have one without the other?