First of all, selfish and self-centred are those that haven't grown up. It is indeed a "natural" trait of children to be self-centred. Upon growing up, however, people grow inside and realise the meaning of respect, care and friendship. |
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Why are people Fake? Why do they crave so much attention they will turn there back on you thinking you will never notice? |
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First of all, selfish and self-centred are those that haven't grown up. It is indeed a "natural" trait of children to be self-centred. Upon growing up, however, people grow inside and realise the meaning of respect, care and friendship. |
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ld's since joining....28
dreams are real while they last, what more can be said about life??
Adopted: SuperDuck
I went through this stage years ago, starting in high school. I know how it feels. These people you are describing are shallow. They get their joy for superficiality and using other people. Strangely enough, these are the kinds of friends I have today also. The good part is their shallow personality is their weakness. |
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Still can't WILD........
If your honest first impression of the situation is that they are mean to you because they are jealous, then the most likely answer is that they are mean to you because you are a pompous prick. You may think you are a nice guy but if in your brain you think they have something to be jealous of you over without knowing what they actually think, you probably aren't all that nice of a person. |
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Last edited by Xaqaria; 07-29-2007 at 09:54 PM.
xaqaria hahaha no dude your totally wrong, i am not a prick like that. People are jealous of alot of shit about me and and i def know these people. They are intimidated by me just being a good person and put me down because they know that it gets to me. If you knew me you would see. |
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ld's since joining....28
dreams are real while they last, what more can be said about life??
Adopted: SuperDuck
You seem to be somewhat like how I act. I'm known as the nice quiet guy. I have a tenancy to talk less when there are bigger numbers of people around, and if there are I will talk to the people who I think are my good friends more than anyone else. People think I'm nice because I'll usually go out of my way for people or help people out as much as I can. All my life I've "studied" how people act, react, and how they think, I know it sounds creepy, but I'm always thinking about things and looking at how people react and how they come to conclusions. I've become very good at knowing what kind of person someone is just by talking to them for a minute or two. Lately I've been noticing the hypocrisies that people say and do, it's like everyone I see is doing or saying something hypocritical. |
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i do honestly fully understand them, and i do the same thing you so when you say you study people. Thats why i just dont understand why sooo many people are like this |
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ld's since joining....28
dreams are real while they last, what more can be said about life??
Adopted: SuperDuck
We're just animals... therefore "human" nature is much like that of the beasts... survival, indulgence, apathy for others, and a desire for personal gain. We mask this all with our advanced communication and technology, but really its just a great means at achieving self-sustenance. Its almost worst than animals, because we have the terrible ability of manipulation at our disposal... since most people fail to stop and simply think for themselves, they are just following instincts, with codes of ethics much like animals. |
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Now this is the day you fall upon my waking eyes, Inviting and inciting me to rise, And through the window in the wall, Comes streaming in on sunlight wings, A million bright ambassadors of morning...
And no one sings me lullabies, And no one makes me close my eyes, And so I throw the windows wide ,And call to you across the sky...
Yes, you're the one, true intellectual swimming in a sea shallow minded, self centered human beings. How I wish I were just like you. |
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They animate me. In confidence I thrive. My reign: supremacy. I speak no word unheard.
Re-motivate me. I'm all there is to be. An omnipotent being so complete in my diversity.
is this supposed to be sarcastic? |
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ld's since joining....28
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Last edited by Carôusoul; 04-18-2008 at 10:33 PM.
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Last edited by Bosco; 04-18-2008 at 11:47 PM.
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no, i do not blurt out emotions of that matter to people, thats why i brought it up here, the only reason i am being completely honest here is because i dont know any of you guys, i am not a conceited person. yea i may say im good looking on here but that is not being conceited, its being honest. |
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no i dont, neither did i back then, i was and still am at some points overly "trusting" of certain people, i always forgive and forget and go with the flow....seems like the way people act is just their "human nature" and they will never change |
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Last edited by LucidFlanders; 04-19-2008 at 08:08 AM.
Honestly Bosco it sounds to me like you have a somewhat narcistic personality. There's certainly nothing wrong with being confident, but when it leads you to be paranoid about your friends' jealousy you might be taking it too far. People are very seldom motivated by feelings of envy. People's perceptions of jealousy are often projections of their own feelings, usually arising from a sense that people aren't treating them as they are entitled to be treated. A narcisist's idea that they possess special qualities(such as attractiveness) and that other people can't relate to them is characteristic of the personality. I'm not saying that you don't have good qualities that you should be proud of, but maybe they're not as important or remarkable to others as they are to you. You've got to try to look at things from other people's perspectives. If it seems like other people just don't get you, maybe it's just that they have a different perspective and you need to communicate with them more before you can expect them to accept what you're saying. You've also got to be comfortable with the possibility that you're wrong. Everyone is wrong at some point, we are all fallible. If you assert yourself aggressively in social situations, other people might see you as abrasive or arrogant, especially if you are too demanding of them. This might cause them to act more coolly towards you and you interpret this as jealousy. Just try to be nicer and more accomodating towards people and remember that you are a much bigger figure in you own "big picture" than you are in others'. |
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Super profundo on the early eve of your day
Art
The ability to happily respond to any adversity is the divine.
Dream Journal Shaman Apprentice Chronicles
*sigh* i agree with you completely and i have yet to figure this out...i have been thinking about this for about seven years now and i don't think i am much closer to the answer than when i realized this morbid fact.I have only three friends now because i refuse to speak to people who act like that openly.they all think like that, but there are some relatively decent people.(a select few)wish you luck on this puzzle. |
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