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Hey guys, |
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Lugggs and cuddles and hugs for all!!
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I've noticed this too; it's really sad. It's like the thing that is supposed to comfort them the most doesn't do a thing for them at times when it really matters. |
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I think it's because at their deepest level, they don't really believe it. |
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Every single person I've known while they were dying (granted, it's a sample of 3), ranging from Christian-leaning agnostic to born again, went quite "softly into that dark night," even suffering intense, chronic pain. The relatives who seemed to have the worst time were non-religious in each case, but I don't think that was as relevant as their relationship with the person and general emotional stability. |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
If someone you loved moved away to the other side of the world and was alive, but unable to ever see you again due to the secrecy of their new job or whatever, you'd feel sad. I bet it's more a matter of parting than belief that it's not real, etc. |
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I don't think so. |
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What do you mean, "if"? People do really die, we don't need an analogy for it. The questions was assuming that people really believe in heaven, why are they unhappy to die and see their loved ones die (despite Taosaur's experience of so many peaceful deaths, I myself and I'm sure a lot of other people, seen a lot of non-peaceful ones amongst believers.) |
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The analogy wasn't for death; it was a contrived example of how we can feel the same kinds of feelings even when the person hasn't actually died. The idea being that the feelings of loss and sorrow in this thread are human emotions that have very little to do with the metaphysical logistics of what happens to the soul, assuming it exists. People can take comfort in the whole, "well, he's in a better place now" notion, but it doesn't change how they feel about losing their friend (even if it's just for a few decades). |
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I would think the relatives and friends of the dying person would miss them. |
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Can I tell you something honestly? |
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"do what you wish"
Only a few times was i sad at death of people i knew, or animals. Total deaths in last 15 years. |
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I never cried at funerals. I cried because I had to go. |
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"do what you wish"
I felt sad. Truly I did, But, I just saw them in a better place. |
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"do what you wish"
I was referring to Heaven. |
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"do what you wish"
It's really hard to explain |
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"do what you wish"
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