Thread: I could use some advice.

I don't know man, i would say you should just forget about the girl as far as a romantic relationship goes. The girl might've thought you took to long to make your move, if there was any chemistry between the two of you, and moved on to the next guy. And if she is just trying to get a reaction from you i would still say forget it cause in my opinion girls who do immature things like that just aren't worth it.

I'm actually going through a somewhat similar problem except the girl im working and flirting with has a boyfriend that i guess she has mixed feelings for, but i don't want to be the cause for their breakup. Im probably just gonna take my own advice and forget about this girl, if she wants to break up with him just break up with him, don't wait around for someone else to help you breakup with him. girls sure are a strange bunch

p.s. sorry for somewhat jacking your thread but our problems were sorta similar so i didn't wanna make a whole new thread about it.

It's all good. Yeah this chick is something else. It's like what the fuck is up with you. She has a boyfriend too. Should I confront her about it or like you said forget it?

Today it was like I was working with children.

I guess you could confront her about it, just to see what the heck was going on, or if you really do wanna get with her and see if there still might be something there. As for how to confront her you might wanna check with a female member of this forum and see what the best way to bring it up would be, hopefully an immature one so their personalities would be similar. If it was me i would just forget about it, but that just me. She might be worth it to you though, and if she is i would say go for it.

Dude you are fuckin hilarious. Thanks for the words, man.

Don't get caught up in the mind games. If she has a boyfriend then she's either just fucking with you or you're reading in to it too much. I'd say forget about her. The benefit of this strategy is it saves you a lot of energy, and if she is trying the whole 'hard to get' bullshit then it will only draw her in quicker. Nothing gets a girl's motor running faster than being ignored.

No matter what her intentions, the worst thing you could do is give her the satisfaction of a reaction.

Originally Posted by Xaqaria

Nothing gets a girl's motor running faster than being ignored.

Too true.

Originally Posted by blindfold_off

Dude you are fuckin hilarious. Thanks for the words, man.

lol yeah i was shrooming last night, and it was the emotional kind of trip.

So any other girls care to chime in on the subject. It will be appreciated.

Here's an update.


So at work the other day she was real chummy with me. I didn't really feel like talking to her that much that day. Towards the end of the day we're talking more and during one part of the conversation she has her hand on my arm by my elbow grabbing for at least 10 seconds.


And.

We did lunch a while back. We both had a good time. And every once in a while she's like we should totally do lunch again. She brought it up again yesterday too.

Shit on her head.

I should be like: "Biotch, I don't heart you anymore".

This thread rocks. Hard. Rock hard.

As does your avatar, blindfold_off. Where did you find that? I thought those pictures didn't get out... I'm going to have to have a nice little sit-down with my agent about that.