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I'm 16, broke up with the first girlfriend I've had after about 6 months of going out. I still like her, she says she still likes me but wants to be with other people and doesn't like being in a serious relationship. What should I do? We're still friendly, so being just friends would still be an option... should I wait for her to come around, try to get over her, or what? |
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Surrender your flesh. We demand it.
Looks like she's pretty determined into not being with you anymore. She's obviously thought about it, and she broke up with you. I don't think there's any 'coming around' anymore. |
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She broke up with me |
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You need to tell her that you can respect how she feels, but you're not about to wait around for her. Don't be rude about it, just be honest. There is no reason why you should be made to sit on the bench until she decides to "come around." You have to have more respect for yourself than that. If she would rather have you sit on the sidelines while she does whatever with whomever, then she's not worth the heartache, because she obviously doesn't have the same sort of respect for you. |
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Well she's not telling me to wait, she's actually telling me to move on and encouraging me to see other people... but I don't want to. If it's not working out right now should I just give up on this relationship? Should I be trying to move on or should I wait and see what happens? There is a chance that we will get back together, I just don't know when and if it will be worth waiting for. |
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Well, ultimately, that's going to be up to you. If you are looking for a relationship, go out and play the field a bit. See what/who you can make something happen with. If you're not really looking for a relationship at the moment (besides one with the girl you're interested in), then there's nothing wrong with sitting around and waiting for a bit, to see where things go. Just don't put too much weight on holding out for her, because there is a very good chance (judging from what you've said) that she's just plain not interested, and nothing will come of it. |
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Dream Journal: Dreamwalker Chronicles Latest Entry: 01/02/2016 - "Hallway to Haven" (Lucid)(Or see the very best of my journal entries @ dreamwalkerchronicles.blogspot)
man just roll with it. if you find another girl you're interested in pursue it, if not then wait around awhile to see what happens. |
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e-x--p---a----n-----d------> yourself.
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Someone at my school had the same problem just recently. A few weeks ago, he broke up with her girlfriend for about a year, well she broke up with him. The reason? She wanted to flirt with other guys. Queue, if she says she wants to be with other people, no offense, but you are just going to have to drop it. Sorry. |
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Question: Which came first, the chicken or the egg?
Answer: Neither, single-celled organisms did.
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Just let it go bud. Stay friends though, because some times it is better to be friends than a couple. |
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