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    1. 08-21-2008 04:52 AM #1
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      How to respond to stares and glances. Guys point of view.

      I kinda get them time to time. I know some people get uncomfortable with stares, especialy wemon. But I'm a guy, and I never know what steps to take to eventually spark a social move.

      I recently changed my habit of having the appearance of just ignoring the glances and stares or just making it seem like I don't know they're looking at me. So I know actually stare back . And to my surprise, it becomes sort of like a staring contest! . But....well....I kinda end up loosing because I'm the first to look away. I guess I get nervous because I don't know what to say or do or act. I'm not a very social person, I may be attractive and actually wan't to give the other person who might be interested in meeting me a chance of at least me showing that I might like them back. But just don't know how.

      Anyone have some advice? Maybe some pointers of what a female would think? Girls?
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    2. 08-21-2008 04:54 AM #2
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      Drop trou and hip-thrust toward them slowly.
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    3. 08-21-2008 05:09 AM #3
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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      Drop trou and hip-thrust toward them slowly.
      That sounds funny Taosaur, but I don't know what the heck that means.
      When I dream, theres always a
      little girl playing in the dirt, that
      turns to me and says "Why are
      you here? .... Are you blind like
      me?"

      What I've found
      What I've known
      Never shined to me what I've shown
      Never be
      Never free
      I wish to see what might have been...
      ...So I talk to you unbeliever.

      I walk in the rain. 1111
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    4. 08-21-2008 05:32 AM #4
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      kinda bend down a little and lunge towards them, i think
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    5. 10-02-2008 09:38 PM #5
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      Quote Originally Posted by nitsuJ View Post
      kinda bend down a little and lunge towards them, i think
      Exactly....that us how we like to meet guys..Being attacked.
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    6. 10-04-2008 02:31 AM #6
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      If someone stares at you. Stare back.

      It's fun.
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    7. 08-22-2008 08:44 PM #7
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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      Drop trou and hip-thrust toward them slowly.
      That made me laugh so hard.

      You mean drop your trousers, right?
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    8. 08-23-2008 03:18 AM #8
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      i usually just say "hi". simple but effective.
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    9. 08-23-2008 06:43 AM #9
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      You might want to try not beng so arrogant...

      Just kidding, not really, just kidding. Slap them in the face, just kidding, no I wasn't, yes I was, just kidding, just kidding. Blow them a kiss, just kidding, nevermind, just kidding, not actually, just kidding.
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    10. 08-23-2008 06:53 AM #10
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      Give her the finger. If she wants it, she'll come over. If not, she'll give you a disgusting look.

      GIVE HER A SHOCKER.
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      Just don't look down from the stare. Then nod an acknowledgement ... waving is korny.
      Last edited by Shaelyn; 08-21-2008 at 06:22 AM.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Shaelyn View Post
      waving is korny.
      My waving is a little more Slipknotty, actually.
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    13. 08-21-2008 11:18 AM #13
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      When someone stares at me, I simply punch them in the face. It is quite an effective policy when it comes to deterrence.

      Hold on, is this romantic staring.....?
      Last edited by harvey123456; 08-21-2008 at 06:11 PM.
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    14. 08-21-2008 12:42 PM #14
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      Try narrowing your eyes. If that doesn't work, tell them it's rude to stare.
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      Yes, pretend they are not staring. They will get over it eventually.
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    16. 10-22-2008 11:55 AM #16
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      I just stare back, I find it an opportunity.

      This has only happened to me once. It went on for a while but I never broke contact and we became friends.
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