 Originally Posted by DalaBudz
Here's an idea
My Problem With Reality Checks: You know how a good method for MILDing is to do reality checks? Well that's great method! I use it all the time! But it never works in actually initiating my lucidity  . Oddly, every time I've had a lucid dream through MILD, it's been from me randomly just realizing that it's a dream. Even though it's at random, it has happened quite frequently. Where do these random realizations come from? Well my theory is that the reality checks ARE working, but in a subliminal way.
This is the the biggest cons with MILD, the mantra/mnemonic is only as useful as you make it out to be. If you start stating the traditional mantras like “I will have a lucid dream tonight,” or whatever laconic phrase newcomers and experienced lucid dreamers blindly go through, you're going to get random results. It's pretty simple, the more specific you are, the more likely you'll have your mantra work out for you, but it doesn't just stop there, you have to actually visualize yourself having the mantra successfully working.
The mantra/phrase in itself is just a guide towards shifting yourself in the right direction in visualization and shifting to your dream senses. You have to think about how the mind works when you're worried that MILDs only happen with you having a “random” realization. If you state something like,
“I am going to become aware of my dreams tonight,” chances are, you're going to have something random, because the mantra itself was vague.
Compared to something like, “I am going to become aware of my dreams the moment I descend into deep relaxation" combined with visualizing yourself doing that.
(Later in the thread I'll explain an alternate use for reality checks) Every time I do a reality check in waking life, it is provoking me to question reality. I don't really focus on the actual act of checking reality (like plugging my nose and trying to breath, or double checking the time), instead I focus on the questioning part: "Am I dreaming?". After reassuring myself that I'm not dreaming, I go straight back to my real-life business. At that point I totally forget about if I'm dreaming or not, because I'm focused on my normal everyday life things. Until I do my next reality check. My point is that the amount of attention I put into checking reality is minimal. Therefore it never ends up getting any attention in dreams. So I never end up lucid dreaming through reality checks. So obviously this minimal attention towards reality checking doesn't work to well.
My Idea: Now some people would say that instead you should do ADA (All Day Awareness), which brings a whole lot of your attention towards the question "Am I Dreaming?". Way more attention than reality checks offer. BUT I have an alternative to ADA. It's more of a variation of ADA. To me it's a more fun and interesting way to do ADA. May add that it is also WAY easier, for me at least. And it breaks down the question of "Am I Dreaming?" and builds upon the affirmation of "I Am Dreaming." Telling yourself "I Am Dreaming." is way more straight forward right? The moment you realize your lucid dreaming, that's the statement that crosses your mind. If you had this statement crossing your mind constantly, the chances of becoming lucid would increase. That is my theory. Because when your in a lucid dream, your awareness shoots up and your way more focused (Focused on staying in the dream and being aware that you can literally do anything you want). So through out the day, tell yourself "I Am Dreaming.". Look around and envision what you'd be doing if you were in a dream. (This is after the fact that you subliminally know for a fact that you are awake.) Continue through out the day telling yourself that you are dreaming and feel the rush of excitement that washes over you. The same excitement that usually happens to someone who is exposed to the fact that they are in a dream and can do whatever the hell they want. Even in waking life, when I tell myself I am dreaming, I become way more interested in what's in front of me and I get a minimal feeling of that "Dream Euphoria". Im theorizing (and I really hope) that constantly being familiar with the experience of "Holy shit I'm dreaming!!" will cause someone to do it in their dreams.
Skepticism: Yeah I know. Multiple things could go wrong with this. The main thing I feel like someone could address is the fear, that constantly telling yourself through out the day "I Am Dreaming!" can really make a person actually believe that they are in fact dreaming (When in reality they are awake). Well this is why I said reality checks are a great method. Use reality checks to make sure your awake. THEN you can pretend that your in a dream. Another problem someone might bring up is that the excitement you feel when becoming lucid may numb over time when doing this (Like a drug.) therefore the excitement of becoming lucid may never happen in your dreams. Well to me I feel like this could be a good thing. Losing this extreme excitement can help someone stay calm once lucid, making it easier to stabilize your lucidity.
I will indeed test my theory and post my findings on this thread. I'll keep you updated
Your theory isn't really that much of a variation/deviation/alternative way of what ADA was meant to be defined as. The conflict lies in the person trying to practice it not really giving much effort into it; or just being too lazy to have to acknowledge their experience with looking forward to a lucid dream after going through the frequent checks in waking life.
Like you've stated, the more you envision yourself being in a dream like state, the more likely you'll have a lucid dream, that's not really anything different from ADA. People have good intentions of trying their best with ADA, but they mostly go through a mental conflict on whether or not it's going to work. And the reason behind that (presumably), is that they're too busy with other life goals, like you stated when you become distracted with normal things again in real life.
So to have practical application of the ADA, you'd have to get yourself in a relaxed state that enables you to have a stronger concentration on a goal that it becomes difficult to become distracted. And with any skill or concept to grasp, that takes practice. This is why I personally use self-hypnosis when I want to have a lucid dream, and although I haven't made a detailed script for myself for it, when I go through a session, I get into a deep state of relaxation pretty quick, which enables me to get into the suggestive state faster than I did months ago.
And if I were to read a script aloud that's custom-made for the goal I had in mind, it has a higher chance to bypass the critical factor (the part of your mind that takes in new info and compares it to currently accepted belief systems and schemata). I started realizing that it was easier to be focused on a goal because I would go through a calm, relaxed, and confident tone of voice while visualizing what I want out of this experience as well.
When I do this, I also let my subconscious do the imagination for me rather than me putting conscious will in imagining. If the subconscious is aware of things we take for granted, it surely can be a threshold in helping you foresee/envision the excitement, the thrill, the joy, the state of being in complete happiness when you become aware that you're dreaming. And the more you do this, the more you condition yourself into naturally being interested in having optimism in all results you get from practicing ADA, the easier it gets.
The drug analogy you stated, based on the logic of what you stated before, there can't be a tolerance if the person shifts themselves into a suggestive state that promotes optimism. Which brings me back to why self-hypnosis is more consistent than using only affirmations or going through mantras in a monotonous and rushed tone of voice. When you can get yourself relaxed and into the suggestive state, the easier it is to have those pleasure surges because the subconscious makes it a habit, it becomes part of the program of how you prepare with ADA, and it becomes natural.
And instead of thinking you're “pretending” that you're lucid dreaming, try going with the idea that you're merely practicing how you're foreseeing yourself being aware in the dreaming state, just like you stated before with imagining the thrills and excitements of being lucid in a dream. I personally believe there's nothing wrong with doing this since it is a form of dream incubation, and if you put motivation and effort into it, there isn't going to be a “plateau effect,” simply because,
Self-Hypnosis (which is just getting yourself into a gradual relaxation towards a clearer mind)
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Giving post-hypnotic suggestions when you're in a suggestive state (where your mind is clear and open to suggestions) so that you'll have increased assurance of what will happen after you're out of the hypnosis
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Having a natural condition to be motivated and excited with ease on foreseeing yourself being aware in the dream life state
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Being descriptive in your experiences, using all 5 senses if possible, and speaking to yourself aloud (if possible), or mentally
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Letting your words be a tool for the subconscious to imagine rather than you consciously trying to imagine
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Foreseeing yourself accomplishing the state of lucidity and sustaining it for as long as you want, and continuing to acknowledge your actions/emotions/etc.
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Higher chance to become aware in your dreams since you bypassed the critical factor, and it's ingrained into your subconscious.
Your theory isn't flawed honestly, and personally, from going through months of finding how I can apply self-hypnosis to have a relaxed but focused concentration towards my lucid dreaming goal, I can tell you that as long as you have motivation and effort that comes naturally after relaxing, and with repetition, it's going to become easier.
There's no tolerance or plateau that is built up, think about that analogy you used before a bit more. Let me use an example:
= Let's say you wanted to stop eating chocolate bars (Snickers, Hershey's , etc.). You would go through imagining how eating chocolate bars won't be a benefit towards your life, so you would go through methods that will eventually become natural to the point where it's a reflex. So how would you go about doing this?
You could imagine the chocolate bars representing fecal matter, something the majority of people don't really like eating (hopefully). And if you were to use gradual relaxation techniques, have suggestions (both pre- and post-) that you'll envision all chocolate bars as less rewarding and disgusting (because of the fecal reference), you'll find yourself with repetition (and I don't mean mechanical actions), you'll stay away from the chocolate bars without even thinking about it.
And once it's in the subconscious' programming, it'll be difficult to change it, which means in the perspective of the subconscious (or unconscious if you're into Old Term thinking), there is no “tolerance” through repetition or “plateau effect,” it just happens naturally.
I know the example is far-fetched in some way, but I hope you get what I mean. Anyway, I wish you luck! I'm pretty sure you're going to get positive results, because that's what ADA is all about. It's just just about awareness, but about applying that along with visualizing and foreseeing yourself benefiting and accomplishing whatever goal you want from it.
***Also, try to imagine yourself and not just mostly the environment around you. Imagine your level of clarity as you go around in you dream body and such, and you'll have an easier time to solidify yourself into the dreaming state and having as much awareness as you want from the dream.
Again, good luck!
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