It sounds like you are extremely close. Now you just have to take the final plunge, and enter the dream. Check out Clairity's guide for some tips on how to do that:
http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...415#post746415

Of course, there are a million different ways to do it. Just make sure your timing is right, and that you are close to a REM cycle. If you don't have a REM dream to enter, it can be pretty hard to have a successful WILD. Make sure you are doing this after a few hours of sleep, or during a nap when you know you will hit a dream. Not when you first go to sleep at night.