Please you guys, help me.

I can't get lucid, and when I do I'm pulled out the dream.

The nose pinch test has failed. The reading test has failed. And the questioning my reality caused my dream to go dim and I was pulled out. I couldn't stay in and it turned to third person. I could briefly tell myself what to do, but I couldn't feel myself do it, and the dream ended. Needless to say.

So, what can I do? Maybe I have a mental block because my mom told me she wants me to stop trying to be lucid, but I really don't want to. Any suggestions? I mean, I don't really intend to stop but I think maybe my mind is forceing me to stop and is keeping my checks from working.

Thanks.