Hi ive been trying WILD every night b4 i goto bed and ive started to get pretty decent at it but im having some problems if anyone can help me.

I can get into a dream and realize I can change whatever I want but I dont realize im dreaming. I just go off changing stuff and doing as I please as if it was a lucid dream, but the stuff i change and the stuff i do are not what i want at all there so random lol.

Can anyone help me get past this? I keep getting stuck at this same spot.

Also I noticed in my dreams im never in first person view as if its myself. Its always like im in 3rd person watching the main dream character or something, whats with that? any ideas?