I cant take it anymore

I am too far advanced to keep having this problem, and personally, Im fed up with it.

I dont know what it is, but lately I become lucid and wake up right away, and trust me its far from being too excited.

It seems when ever I become lucid, or conjure someone, I wake up.

Last night I was trying to conjure this girl and used a room with a door to do it, but this is the second time this happened, when I would open the door after a couple attempts and no one is there, I keep trying, and then some random person is there once I open the door, and once I notice it isnt the person I wanted, I wake up. Now Its not like I just wake up....its almost like I am being yanked out of the dream, it quickly fades sooo quick, spinning or rubbing my hands wont work..its just too fast...sometimes before I can tell its ending, it ends...it sucks...

then besides the conjuring , sometimes I will become lucid and start to fade, but alot slower then the conjuring problem, but still kind of quick, but these I can save,

I dont know why this is happening and its very fustrating. I have a plan though...if I do find myself in a dream where im somewhat lucid and try to conjure, I will expect this same person again, and instead of her catching me off guard making me wake up, I will expect to see the same person and when I do, kind of throw them off and pretend im a doctor or something and they are waiting to see me, this way I can maybe get them to vanish or something i dont know..lol