WhatsReal

This is actually the first time I have ever clicked on this Thread, But I have seen it many times as I scrolled down the beyond 'beyong dreaming' section . I guess it just stuck in my head...TELL YOUR DREAM CHARICTERS YOU LOVE THEM!!! So last night I had a DILD, I was in a very crowded place, like a ghetto. I became lucid when I told my girlfriend that the entire situation was really wierd. She then looked at me and said "well check to see if we are dreaming" so i do a reality check and the three fingers on my hand confirmed I was dreaming. I stabalized the dream by doing multiple realitly checks and focusing my eyes. After i was stabalized I tried to think of a lucid dreaming goal. (I have many) but the first thing that came to mind was- TELL YOUR DREAM CHARICTERS YOU LOVE THEM!!! I said very loudly in the crowded steets of the ghetto "I love all of you" ... two people turn to me and they both tell me they love me too! and it felt good so i decided to adress people as individuals. I turn to the closest person to me and he is holding a cup with water in it and the water is spilling out as he is trying to plug the hole. I kicked the cup out of his hand and said "dont worry about that, this is a dream" and then told him i loved him, he replied " I love you too, i have been waiting to here that" kinda shocked about his answer i was not ready for what he had to say next. He then says "eveything here is a problem when you live here.... This is no dream" he then just turned away i look to the next guy holding my theme and tell him "I LOVE YOU" he just turned away with no answer. i pulled his shoulder i said it again... no answer kinda upset i just went for a fly.

I didnt know what the purpose of this untill today when i actually clicked the thread, but there are my results. one dream charicter didnt want to say it... dont know why?

I have never actually talked to my shadow in a dream. if you are looking for it. it usually appears in the form of a black man or black woman walking or lurking behind you, just waiting do be accepted. I have had many of these dreams where i am engaging in something but the entire dream there is a black figure lurking behind me not talking or scary just waiting. unfortunatly, none of these dreams being lucid. i am just waiting for the day I confront them and we can finally join and be one.