Seriously f*u*ked off

**UrgentRS** · 11-04-2012 09:22 PM

im realy pis*ed off.I had another nightmare last night were i was traped in a house with a drunk abusive man who beat everyone up that came in his path I gained lucidity and tryed to confrunt my nightmare figure.last time was the first time i attempted it and it didnt go to plan.. so i marched up to the man and said this is a dream why are you doing this to me.he replyed because i can now go to bed or il beat you up.I shouted this is my dream and he punched me (it hurt like hell) and told me to go to bed,I retreated,after a while of doing everything the man said so i woulnt get smacked including watching him killing a preist i woke up pissed of as hell.Why the heck cant i confront my nightmare figures.This is geting annoying.

**LaBerge** · 11-04-2012 10:18 PM

Maybe you should ignore him, just go through a wall and fly away (:
The classic answer is to confront him peacefully (be calm/happy, not angry), kindly asking what he respresents.
A third option is to kill him, look for a knife or something and stab him in the neck (: I like violence

**gab** · 11-04-2012 10:46 PM

Why are you so angry at that? Just take it as a lesson. You tried confronting him in anger and it didn't work. Now you know, that's probably not the way to go.

He could be just a dream character going about his business and you could try to avoid him and go about your business. Or he is a part of you that is violent and angry, and if you approach it with violence and anger, you get a fight. That's probably not a solution you are looking for.

Try to tell him that you love him anyway and see what happens. If he is a part of you that's violent and you don't like that about yourself and you try to push it away and forget about it - that will not work. It still is part of you, wheather you like it or not. Best course of action would be to acknowledge that you have it and make peace with it by saying that you love it and accept it.

Now I'm not saying that you are a violent person. But pretty much everybody has something that we don't like about ourselves and untill we make peace with it that we do have it, it will keep haunting us.

Robert Wagonner's book "Lucid dreaming - gateway to the inner self" talkes about issues like this.