Making friends appear

[kiwifrommars]

Sorry if this has already been asked I have so much trouble bringing people in my lucid dreams. All I want is to bring my boyfriend Everytime I lucid dream I try to bring him. literally it's the first thought after "I'm dreaming!" is "Bring my bf!" lol! I tried so many things! I walked to a house with the intent and belief that he would be there and answer the door. I walked a corner while calling his name hoping he'd be just around the corner. I tried even teleporting myself - I tried to spin and maybe bring myself to him instead of the other way around? No use , I tend to just get confused and have to stop or Ill lose my lucidity The one and only thing I can do that works is imagine a cellphone in my pocket, call him, and plan to meet. But that's all I can do! Any helpful suggestions?

[GangsterPanda]

Really it's as simple as what you expect is what you get, even though it seems that you put a lot of effort in to this. I regularly try to make my girlfriend appear in my dreams but I then realised what is the point? You see them all the time in real life so there's not much need to bring them into dreams. I admit it seems cool at first but it wares off quicker than you think. My personal advice for you is to just keep doing what you are doing, it seems to work so why not? My point is that nobody can tell you exactly how to do because it doesn't work like that you must discover the best ways and in doing so you will fail, yet eventually you will succeed. That's all I have for you right now Keep dreaming, - GangsterPanda

[TwoCrystalCups]

Me and my dream guy visit in dreams..and as you can call it "share dream". The only reason why this happens often is because we don't see each other in real life much and dreams is another form of communication. There is times when summoning him isn't needed because i see him often in dreams without looking for him, which seems like we both know that we dream together often. But i hate it when i don't see him for days or a whole week, then i have to start looking for him. This is when i start doing the day dream awareness technique for a couple of days, it usually works because me and him has very good telepathic communications. DDA doesn't work for me in one day, some people can do it but depends on the reason too.

[blackbirdrising]

Back in 2001, I remember missing a friend of mine very much, so much I asked in prayer before bed, to be able to see this friend. I was very specific. I asked to see this friend once a month in a dream. Like clockwork, once a month for the next few months, I saw this friend in a dream. I remember the last "monthly visit" was in January of 2002. I will say this, if you're serious about it, it will happen. But you have to accept that you are responsible for it happening. You can't force it, it takes two to dream visit, the other person has to, on some subconscious level, be willing or in need themselves, to visit you too.

[Sensei]

Don't just think he is going to be there, remember him being there a few seconds ago. He was right around the corner. Or go to his house in the dream. No need to teleport, just fly there. Or work or school or whatever.