Well a quote comes to mind when I read your response in regard to lucid dreaming, and that is, "Whether you believe you can do it or not, you're right". you've got to try and make yourself realize that the dreamworld is YOUR CREATION. In a sense, you are the goddess of your own universe. Nothing is impossible or not doable. Do it all! Will it to happen. This is just one "tool" to use to make things you can do anyway happen easier.