Now that I got the attention of all the Metallica fans, this has nothing to do with the band.

Now I will have a DILD about every 1 - 2 weeks, but every time it happens, I'll suddenly be in a black void. I'll know I'm dreaming, once I was able to stay in SP, but no dream formed. One time, a new dream suddenly appeared, but last night, I just sat in a dark void, and then awoke. It seems every time I realize I'm dreaming, I lose the dream I'm in. I know that spinning and rubbing hands help stabilize, but I don't have the time to do it. What else is possible to help stop this from happening? Or... should I embrace the darkness and imagine my own dreamscape?